love
The will to extend one's self for the purpose of nurturing one's own or another 's spiritual growth.
Falling in love is not the begin of real love but is the collapse of ego boundary.
When ego boundary returned, people realized there still two individuals actually.
There are two probabilities. One probability is the end of the relationship, the other one is the starting of the real love travel.
To truly grow up, and to experience the joyful sense of rebirth that accompanies the successful transition into greater maturity.
List in order of their occurrence, some of the major conditions, desires and attitudes that must be given up in the course of a wholly successful evolving lifetime:
The state of infancy, in which no external demands need be responded to
The fantasy of omnipotence
The desire for total (including sexual) possession of one's parent(s)
The dependency of childhood
Distorted images of one's parents
The omnipotentiality of adolescence
The "freedom" of uncommitment
The agility of youth
The sexual attractiveness and/or potency of youth
The fantasy of immortality
Authority over one's children
Various forms of temporal power
The independence of physical health
And, ultimately, the self and life itself.
