Part 1 Words & Expressions
1. proactive
Making things happen or change rather than
reacting to events.積極的，主動的
Eg. Being proactive was not so easy for me, butnow I form a habit of it.
2. He was imprisoned in the death camps of NaziGermany, where he experienced things that were so repugnant to our sense ofdecency that we shudder to even repeat them.
Repugnant: very unpleasant and offensive.
Eg. Our boss’s words sounds so repugnant to us.
3. He exercised his small, embryonic freedomuntil it grew larger and larger.
Embryonic:at a very early stage of development.萌芽階段的，胚胎的
Eg. At our embryonic time, we live a life with nosense in mother’s uterus.
Part 2 Reflection
They do not blame circumstances, conditions, or conditioning for their behavior. Their behavior is a product of their own conscious choice, based on values, rather than a product of their conditions,based on feelings.
Proactive people can carry their own weather withthem.
Proactive people are driven by values—carefully thoughtabout,selected and internalized values.
主動的人不會怨天尤人俭驮，他們的行為是基于自己價值觀的選擇翘悉，而不是環(huán)境的產(chǎn)物。一直以來常常太在意別人的想法待秃，情感上好像還是處于dependent的階段拜秧，如今需要學(xué)著去改變、成長章郁。先從建立一個穩(wěn)定的價值觀開始枉氮，而不是經(jīng)常性自我懷疑和動搖。
Taking initiative does not mean beingpushy,obnoxious, or aggressive.
這句話解開了我一直以來的疑惑。一直都知道主動性很重要嘲恍，可是一位老師讓我非常困惑足画。他一直強(qiáng)調(diào)aggressive才叫主動，無論是與人相處還是做項目佃牛，這樣才能得到想要的結(jié)果淹辞，然而我一直無法做到真正地aggressive，并且抗拒把它等同為主動性俘侠，如今這句話算是對我小小困惑的一個解答和安慰象缀。主動性不是侵略性，它可以很優(yōu)雅爷速。
