? ? ? ? 現(xiàn)代社會球化，人的成長期被嚴重拉長，一個年輕人可能一直需要父母的資助瓦糟，以完成學業(yè)筒愚。
? ? ? ? 在中國，買房是一個嚴重的事情菩浙，甚至父母都要幫孩子來買房子巢掺。
? ? 所以，? 有些父母也許會想劲蜻，孩子到底是個什么東西陆淀？如果這樣去養(yǎng)，我最后老了又不依賴他先嬉，我不就是在養(yǎng)一只白眼狼倔约。就此我想介紹德國詩人包瑞斯的一首詩《黃金球》，它講的是家庭中的愛坝初，最好是一代代向下傳遞的浸剩，而不是下一代為上一代負責。
? ? ? 《黃金球》The Golden Ball
因為愛鳄袍，爸爸給了我
For the love my father gave to me
我無以回報
I did not give him due.
年紀小绢要，這份禮物的價值，我不知道
As child, I didn't know the value of the gift.
長大后拗小，用成人的腦袋重罪，無法思考
As man, became too hard, too like a man.
現(xiàn)在，我兒子長大成人哀九，愛傳給他
My son grows to manhood now, loved with passion,
在父親的心中剿配，和別人不一樣，他是個寶
as no other, present in his father's heart.
我曾經(jīng)接受的東西阅束，現(xiàn)在付出
I give of that which I once took, to one from
這來自不再回來的人呼胚，沒法回贈。
whom it did not come, nor is it given back.
當兒子長大成人息裸，像男人一樣思考蝇更，
When he becomes a man, thinking as a man,
他將像我一樣，踏上自己的路途呼盆。
he will, as I, follow his own path.
我給他的愛年扩，他會交給他的兒子
I'll watch, with longing free from envy as
我注視他，帶著渴望而沒有嫉妒访圃。
he gives on to his own son the love I gave to him.
我的目光跟隨生命的游戲厨幻，
My gaze follows the game of life
深入時間的殿堂，
deep through the halls of time—
人人含笑拋出黃金球
each smilingly throws the golden ball,
沒有人拋給傳球給他的人
and no one throws it back to him from whom it came.
