Most people appear confident when in reality, they want things that they can’t have, and feel badly about it. Everywhere I go, I see them talking about ignorance without realizing their projections and insecurities are manifested in what they say and how they act. They are clones, automatons, and they do just the opposite of what I am going to tell you to do below, wading through life without ever knowing how to be yourself.
現(xiàn)實生活中,許多人都對自己充滿了自信,但是一旦有東西得不到的時候,就會覺得很糟糕.每到一個地方,我看著周圍的人完全沒有意識到他們的言語，他們的行動會引發(fā)的一些問題。他們是克隆人涮雷、是機器人硼瓣，他們做著的事與我想告知你的事是完全不相同的，不知道如何做真正的自己而一生都碌碌無為。
Find your passion.
找到你自己的興趣愛好
My little brother has no passion, but he’s got likes. He likes food, girls, and alcohol. Unfortunately, he doesn’t want to get a job in these fields. Perhaps most of all, he likes to brood. I’m pushing him to become a philosopher, hoping that his preference for deep thought will help him make money. In the meantime, he’s going to finish college.
我弟弟就沒有什么興趣，但他有愛好。他喜歡吃的東西垄分，喜歡美女，也喜歡酒娃磺。然而他不想在這些領(lǐng)域里找工作薄湿。也許大部分時候他喜歡沉思。我勸他去做一名哲學(xué)家偷卧，希望他的這一偏好能讓他謀得一份工作嘿般，盡管現(xiàn)在，他大學(xué)都還沒有畢業(yè)涯冠。
Be fearless.
無所畏懼
Fears are weaknesses. To be yourself, get rid of all fear in your life by facing it head on. Even if you fail, you should learn how to succeed next time.
害怕就是一種弱點炉奴。做你自己，在你的生活中蛇更，直面恐懼就能戰(zhàn)勝恐懼瞻赶。即使是失敗了，你也應(yīng)該學(xué)著下次要怎樣才能成功派任。
Be kind to yourself. 好好對自己Judge less and appreciate more what you do and what you have done. Everyone has different talents and can help to leave the planet a better place than it was when they found it, which is really the goal of life. Even if your way of enhancing the world is to smile at strangers, that’s still worth a lot more than what some people offer.
無論是對自己正在做的事還是做過的事都要多給自己一點鼓勵砸逊，少一點自責(zé)。每個人都有不同的才能掌逛，即使自己沒有意識到师逸，也能讓你生活的這片土地變得更美好，這才是人生的目標(biāo)豆混。即使只是在路上對陌生人報以微笑篓像，這也是值得給予他人的动知。
Accept failure.
接受失敗
Fail faster to find success. It may take five years instead of ten, but as long as you stick with your failures and appreciate them, learning from your suffering, you will find that the core of who you are is stronger than ever.
失敗容易成功難。也許不會花上10年也需要5年的時間员辩，但是只要你堅持不懈的戰(zhàn)勝失敗盒粮，珍惜失敗，從失敗中總結(jié)經(jīng)驗奠滑，你會發(fā)現(xiàn)你其實已經(jīng)比以前優(yōu)秀很多丹皱。
Dream. 夢想Dreams and goals are very similar. If you dream of achieving something, you can set goals to reach it. If you don’t dream, you will live an average life, indistinguishable from the crowd.
夢想和目標(biāo)很相近。要是你夢想做成某件事宋税，你可以通過給自己設(shè)立設(shè)立去實現(xiàn)你的夢想摊崭。要是你沒有夢想，你就會想普通人一樣過著普通的生活杰赛，完全與其他人無異爽室。
Read.
閱讀
Some people think that reading isn’t as important as keeping up with their Neflix queue. They fail to realize that the brightest and best minds and most interesting experiences central to human experience have been put into writing for the past five thousand years. To learn more about yourself, spend some time alone with a book and tap into the richness of literature.
一些人認為閱讀還不如看電影來得重要。他們沒有認識到過去五千多年的最有影響力淆攻、最優(yōu)秀的思想、以及最有趣的經(jīng)歷是通過寫作記錄下來的嘿架。多多了解自己瓶珊，多花些時間看看書，這樣你才可以進入最有有趣的文學(xué)世界耸彪。
Surround yourself with good people.
和一些不錯的人交朋友
True friends are loyal and share your interests. They are willing to do more than gossip and talk aboutthings. Perhaps most important, good people are willing to make you feel better about yourself, without talking about how great they are. They will enjoy you not for being like them, but rather for knowing how to be yourself.
真正的朋友是對你很忠誠伞芹，與你有共同興趣的人。他們愿意做的不只是和你討論蝉娜。也許真正的朋友是會讓你感覺更自信唱较，他們不會在你面前胡謅自己有多了不起。他們不是喜歡你而不喜歡自己召川，只是他們知道如何做自己南缓。
Go against the grain. 不按常理出牌Most people seek the comfort of a group. Usually, however, this does not teach you how to be yourself, but how to conform. Instead, think about what matters to you and do it—don’t care if everyone else disagrees.
大部分的人都是在尋找一種讓自己感覺舒適的方式生活。但是荧呐，通常這樣做都不會讓你明白如何做你自己汉形，而是怎樣讓自己過得更舒適。相反的倍阐，你應(yīng)該想想什么對你來說更重要---即使別人不同意也不要在意概疆。
Think about your clan.
想想你的親人
What would your family think? By being close genetically to you, those who raised you or were there with you during tough times are good to turn to when in trouble. The values your family supports can translate to your own, especially on big issues you don’t know how to answer.
你的家人會怎么想？那些與你有親屬關(guān)系的人峰搪、那些養(yǎng)育了你的人岔冀、或者那些在你遇到困難時幫你化險為夷的人。尤其是在你遇到大問題卻又不知道該怎么做時概耻，親人的支持能讓你做真正的自己使套。
Travel.
旅行
Seeing how other people in the world live can help you appreciate what you have and what sets you apart. Plus, on any trip, you will come across challenges, such as communicating and getting to where you need to go on time. Traveling alone can force you to learn things about yourself you never knew existed.
看看世界上的其他人是如何生活的也能幫助你珍惜你所擁有的罐呼、珍惜那些你所放棄的。另外童漩，在一段旅途中弄贿，你能戰(zhàn)勝困難，比如你要按時去某個地方但又有交流障礙矫膨。獨自旅行能讓你了解到很多你以前從來不知道的東西藤滥。
