先問問題垫竞，然后雙方凝望幾分鐘缓屠。
第一部分
1畜普、如果你能在這個世界上選任何人同你共進(jìn)晚餐期丰，你想邀請誰？
1. Given the choice of anyone in the world, whom would you want as a dinner guest?
2吃挑、你想出名嗎钝荡？以怎樣的方式？
2. Would you like to be famous? In what way?
3舶衬、打電話之前埠通，你會預(yù)演一下要講的話嗎？為什么逛犹？
3. Before making a telephone call, do you ever rehearse what you are going to say? Why?
4端辱、對你來說梁剔，怎樣算作“完美”的一天？
4. What would constitute a “perfect” day for you?
5舞蔽、你最近一次對著自己唱歌是什么時候荣病？對著別人呢？
5. When did you last sing to yourself? To someone else?
6喷鸽、如果你能活到90歲众雷，但是在后面的60年里你只能選擇保持30歲的身體或者30歲的頭腦，你會選哪一個做祝？
6. If you were able to live to the age of 90 and retain either the mind or body of a 30-year-old for the last 60 years of your life, which would you want?
7砾省、是否曾經(jīng)預(yù)感過自己會怎樣死去？
7. Do you have a secret hunch about how you will die?
8混槐、說出三個你和對方具備的共同點(diǎn)编兄。
8. Name three things you and your partner appear to have in common.
9、你生命中最想感激的是什么声登？
9. For what in your life do you feel most grateful?
10狠鸳、如果你能改變你成長中的任何東西，你會去改變什么悯嗓？
10. If you could change anything about the way you were raised, what would it be?
11件舵、用四分鐘盡可能詳盡地向?qū)Ψ街v述你的人生故事。
11. Take four minutes and tell your partner your life story in as much detail as possible脯厨。
12铅祸、如果你明天醒來，能獲得任意一項(xiàng)品質(zhì)或者技能合武，你希望是什么临梗？
12. If you could wake up tomorrow having gained any one quality or ability, what would it be?
第二部分
13、如果有個水晶球能告知關(guān)于你自身稼跳、你的生活盟庞、你的未來或者任何其他事情的答案，你會問它什么汤善？
13. If a crystal ball could tell you the truth about yourself, your life, the future or anything else, what would you want to know?
14什猖、是否有什么是你夢想很久但是一直沒去做的事情？為什么一直沒有去做红淡？
14. Is there something that you’ve dreamed of doing for a long time? Why haven’t you done it?
15卸伞、你人生中最大的成就是什么？
15. What is the greatest accomplishment of your life?
16锉屈、在一段友誼中你最珍視的是什么荤傲？
16. What do you value most in a friendship？
17颈渊、你最珍藏的記憶是什么遂黍？
17. What is your most treasured memory?
18终佛、你最糟糕的記憶是什么？
18. What is your most terrible memory?
19雾家、如果你知道一年之內(nèi)你會突然死去铃彰，你是否會對現(xiàn)在的生活做出改變？為什么芯咧？
19. If you knew that in one year you would die suddenly, would you change anything about the way you are now living? Why?
20牙捉、友誼對你來說意味著什么？
20. What does friendship mean to you?
21敬飒、在你的生命中邪铲，愛和喜歡分別扮演著什么角色？
21. What roles do love and affection play in your life?
22无拗、輪流分享你認(rèn)為對方具有的5個好品質(zhì)带到。
22. Alternate sharing something you consider a positive characteristic of your partner. Share a total of five items.
23、你的家庭親密英染、溫暖嗎?你覺得你的童年是不是比其他人更幸福一些?
23. How close and warm is your family? Do you feel your childhood was happier than most other people's?
24揽惹、你覺得你與母親的關(guān)系怎樣?
24. How do you feel about your relationship with your mother?
第三部分
25、用“我們”造三個句子四康，必須是真實(shí)的搪搏，如：“我們都在這個房間里，感到……”
25. Make three true “we” statements each. For instance, “We are both in this room feeling ... ”
26闪金、完成這個句子：“我希望有這么一個人疯溺，我可以分享…”
26. Complete this sentence: “I wish I had someone with whom I could share ... “
27、如果打算和彼此成為親密的朋友毕泌，分享你認(rèn)為TA需要知道的事情喝检。
27. If you were going to become a close friend with your partner, please share what would be important for him or her to know.
28嗅辣、跟對方說你喜歡TA的點(diǎn)撼泛。這個回答必須非常誠實(shí)，說一些一般不會對剛剛見面的人說的話澡谭。
28. Tell your partner what you like about them; be very honest this time, saying things that you might not say to someone you’ve just met.
29愿题、和對方分享一個你生命中最尷尬的時刻。
29. Share with your partner an embarrassing moment in your life.
30蛙奖、你最近一次在他人面前哭是什么時候潘酗？獨(dú)自一人呢？
30. When did you last cry in front of another person? By yourself?
31雁仲、告訴對方你已經(jīng)喜歡上TA的地方
31. Tell your partner something that you like about them already.
32仔夺、你覺得有什么事情是太嚴(yán)肅而不能被開玩笑的？
32. What, if anything, is too serious to be joked about?
33攒砖、如果你今晚就會死去缸兔，但是沒有任何機(jī)會再和任何人交流日裙，什么事情是你最后悔沒有告訴別人的?為什么之前不說？
33. If you were to die this evening with no opportunity to communicate with anyone, what would you most regret not having told someone? Why haven’t you told them yet?
34惰蜜、你的房子起火了昂拂，你所有的東西都在里面。在已經(jīng)救出了你的愛人和寵物以后抛猖，你還有時間去搶救最后一樣?xùn)|西格侯，你希望搶救什么，為什么财著？
34. Your house, containing everything you own, catches fire. After saving your loved ones and pets, you have time to safely make a final dash to save any one item. What would it be? Why?
35联四、你的家庭中，誰去世會最讓你困擾?為什么?
35. Of all the people in your family, whose death would you find most disturbing? Why?
36瓢宦、分享一個你的私人困擾碎连，向TA求助，問換作TA將如何解決驮履。然后鱼辙，讓TA告訴你，在TA看來玫镐，你選這個問題心里是怎樣的感受倒戏。
36. Share a personal problem and ask your partner's advice on how he or she might handle it. Also, ask your partner to reflect back to you how you seem to be feeling about the problem you have chosen.
