在娃的家長會(huì)上被校長大大安利了這份備忘錄泞当，于是找來一讀迹蛤，大有醍醐灌頂之感，趕緊貼出來襟士，與各位老母親盗飒、老父親共勉。
1. Don't spoil me. I know quite well that I ought not to have all I ask for. I'm only testing you.
別溺愛我陋桂。我很清楚地知道逆趣，我不應(yīng)該得到每一樣我所要求的東西，我哭鬧不休其實(shí)只是在試探你嗜历。
2. Don't be afraid to be firm with me. I prefer it, it makes me feel secure.
別害怕對(duì)我保持公正的態(tài)度宣渗，這樣反倒讓我有安全感。
3. Don't let me form bad habits. I have to rely on you to detect them in the early stages.
別讓我養(yǎng)成壞習(xí)慣梨州，在年幼的此刻痕囱，我得依靠你來判斷和培養(yǎng)。
4. Don't make me feel smaller than I am. It only makes me behave stupidly "big".
別讓我覺得自己比實(shí)際的我還渺小暴匠，這只會(huì)讓我假裝出一副和我實(shí)際年齡不符的傻樣鞍恢。
5. Don't correct me in front of people if you can help it. I'll take much more notice if you talk quietly with me in private.
可能的話，盡量不要在人前糾正我的錯(cuò)誤每窖，我會(huì)感到很沒面子有序，進(jìn)而和你作對(duì)。你私下提醒岛请，效果會(huì)更好旭寿。
6. Don't make me feel that my mistakes are sins. It upsets my sense of values.
別讓我覺得犯了錯(cuò)就是犯了罪，它會(huì)削弱我對(duì)人生的希望崇败。
7. Don't protect me from consequences. I need to learn the painful way sometimes.
別過度保護(hù)我盅称，怕我無法接受某些“后果”。很多時(shí)候后室，我需要經(jīng)由痛苦的經(jīng)歷來學(xué)習(xí)缩膝。
8. Don't be too upset when I say "I hate you". Sometimes it isn't you I hate but your power to thwart me.
當(dāng)我說“我恨你”的時(shí)候別往心里去。我恨的絕對(duì)不是你岸霹，我恨的是你加在我身上的那些壓力疾层。
9. Don't take too much notice of my small ailments. Sometimes they get me the attention I need.
別太在意我的小病痛。有時(shí)贡避，我只是想得到你的注意而已痛黎。
10. Don't nag. If you do, I shall have to protect myself by appearing deaf.
別對(duì)我嘮叨不休予弧，否則我會(huì)裝聾作啞。
11. Don't forget that I cannot explain myself as well as I should like. That is why I am not always accurate.
我有時(shí)不能把事情解釋得很清楚湖饱，會(huì)詞不達(dá)意掖蛤。這也是為什么我有時(shí)不能準(zhǔn)確地表達(dá)自己。
12. Don't put me off when I ask questions. If you do, you will find that I stop asking and seek my information elsewhere.
當(dāng)我問你問題的時(shí)候井厌，請(qǐng)別敷衍我或者拒絕我蚓庭。否則我將停止發(fā)問，轉(zhuǎn)向它處尋求答案仅仆。
13. Don't be inconsistent. That completely confuses me and makes me lose faith in you.
請(qǐng)別在管教原則上前后不一出爾反爾器赞。這樣會(huì)讓我疑惑，進(jìn)而失去對(duì)你的信任墓拜。
14. Don't tell me my fears are silly. They are terribly real and you can do much to reassure me if you try to understand.
我害怕的時(shí)候港柜，不要覺得我很傻很可笑。如果你試著去了解撮弧，便會(huì)發(fā)現(xiàn)我當(dāng)時(shí)有多恐懼。
15. Don't ever suggest that you are perfect or infallible. It gives me too great a shock when I discover that you are neither.
別對(duì)我暗示你永遠(yuǎn)正確姚糊、無懈可擊贿衍。當(dāng)我發(fā)現(xiàn)你并非如此的時(shí)候，對(duì)我將是一個(gè)多么大的打擊救恨。
16. Don't ever think that it is beneath your dignity to apologize to me. An honest apology makes me feel surprisingly warm towards you.
別認(rèn)為向我道歉是沒有尊嚴(yán)的事贸辈。一個(gè)誠懇的道歉，會(huì)讓我和你更接近肠槽，更尊重你擎淤，感覺更溫暖。
17. Don't forget I love experimenting. I couldn't get along without it, so please put up with it.
別忘記我喜歡親自嘗試秸仙，如果我不嘗試就寸步難行嘴拢，所以請(qǐng)你包容。
18. Don't forget how quickly I am growing up. It must be very difficult for you to keep pace with me, but please do try.
別忘了我很快就會(huì)長大寂纪，對(duì)你來說席吴，和我一起成長是很不容易的事，但請(qǐng)你嘗試一下吧捞蛋。
19. Don't forget that I don't thrive without lots of love and understanding, but I don't need to tell you, do I?
不要忘了離開了厚愛和理解我不會(huì)茁壯成長孝冒，但是，這一點(diǎn)我不需要提醒你吧拟杉？
20. Please keep yourself fit and healthy. I need you.
請(qǐng)保持身體健康庄涡，因?yàn)槲倚枰恪?br>
