Words：
project ：v. to make someone quickly have success or a much better job
[ project sb into/onto sth]
i.e: His hardworking projected him into a higher position
project 最熟悉的意思是做名詞表示“方案，計(jì)劃”
repugnant：adj. making you feel strong dislike or disgust
i.e: I think this show is repugnant
(have) a life of its own: (of an object) seeming to move or function by itself without a person touching or working it (具有）自身生命力
i.e: This new technology stuff seems to have a life of its own
act upon/ on sth: to take action as a result of advice, information
i.e: He failed the exam, because he didn't act upon my suggestion
感想：人之所以為人就在于人是有self-awareness徘溢，可以意識(shí)到自己的對(duì)錯(cuò)闻察，控制自己的行為，為了取得成功會(huì)刻意做一些違反本能的事情守伸，比如專(zhuān)注力绎秒、延遲快樂(lè)。文中還指出reactive people和proactive people之間的區(qū)別尼摹，這樣一條一條對(duì)照才知道自己很多方面是需要改進(jìn)的见芹，比如容易被環(huán)境影響，在意別人的看法蠢涝。
書(shū)中的那句No one can hurt you without your consent 讓我聯(lián)想到《老人與盒海》中的那句A man can be destroyed but not defeated
很喜歡書(shū)中的那句In fact, our most difficult experiences become the crucibles that forge our character and develop the internal powers, the freedom to handle difficult corcumstances in the future and to inspire others to do so as well
