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when people find out I write about time managerment,

They assume two things.

One is that I'm always on time, And I'm not,

I have four small children,

And I would like to blame them for my occasional（adj 偶爾的亩鬼，臨時(shí)的）?tardiness(n 緩慢蠢正、拖延、拖拉）.

But sometimes it's just not their fault.

I was once late to my own speech on time managerment.

We all had to just take a moment together and savor（v 品嘗） the irony（n 諷刺）.

The ?second thing they assume is that ?I have losts of tips and tricks for saving bits of time here and there.

Sometimes I'll hear from magazines that are doing a story also these lines.

generally on how to help their readers find an extra hour in the day.

And the idea is that we'll shave bits of time off everyday activities,

add it up, and we'll have time for the good stuff.

I question the entire（adj 整個(gè)、全部） premise(n 前提） of the piece（n篇缓艳、塊槽奕、個(gè)），’

but I'm always interested in hearing what they've come up with before they call me.

Some of my favorites: doing errands（n 任務(wù)败晴、使命） where you only have to make right-hand turns..

Being extremely（adv 極其浓冒、非常） judicious（adj 明智的） in microeave usage:it says three-and-a-half minutes on the package,we're totally getting on the bottom side of that.

And my personal favorite, which makes sense on some level, is to DVR your favorite shows so you can fast-forward through the commercials（n廣告）.

That way,you save eight minutes every half hours, so in the course of two hours of watching TV,you find 32 minutes to exercise. Which is true.

you know another way to find 32 minutes to exercise?

Don't watch two hours of TV a day,right?

?Anyway,the idea is we'll save bits of time here and there,add it up.

we will finally get to everything we want to do.

But after studying how successful people spend their time and looking at their schedules hour by hour,

I think this idea has it completely backward,

We don't build the lives we want by saving time.

We build the lives we want,and then time saves itself.

并不是通過節(jié)省時(shí)間來改善生活，而是通過創(chuàng)造我們想要的生活尖坤，時(shí)間自然就節(jié)省下來了稳懒。

Here is?what I mean,

I recently did a time diary project looking at 1001 days in the lives of extremely busy women.

They had demanding（adj 嚴(yán)格） jobs,sometimes their own businesses,kids to care for,maybe parents to care for,community commitments.... busy,busy?people

I had them keep track（n/v 跟蹤） of their time for a week,

so I could add up how much they worked and slept,

and I interviewed them about their strategies , for my book

One of the women whose time log I studied...

she goes out on a Wednesday night for something.

she comes home to find that her water heater has broken,and there is now water all over her basement.

If you've ever had anything like this happen to you,

you know it is a hugely damaging,frightening,sopping(adv 濕透地） mess（n 雜亂、困境）.

So she's dealing with the immediate aftermath（n 后果） that night,

next day she's got plumbers coming in, day after that,

professional cleaning crew dealing with the ruined carpet.

All this is being recorded on her time log.

Winds up（收?qǐng)雎丁呶渤“穑瘴玻?/i> taking saven hours of her week.

Seven hours. That's like finding an extra hour in the day.

But I'm sure if you had asked her at the start of the week,

"Could you ?find seven hours to train for a triathlon?"

"Could you ?find seven hours to mentor seven worthy people?"

I'm sure she would've said what most of us would've said,which is,"No...can't you see how busy I am?"

Yet when she had to find seven hours because there is water all over her basement, she found seven hours.

And what this shows us is that time is highly elastic（adj 彈性，伸縮 n 橡皮筋）.

We can not make more time, but time will stretch to accommodate（容納） what we choose to put into it.

我們無法讓時(shí)間變得更多纯路，但是時(shí)間會(huì)得到充分的利用這取決于我們用這些時(shí)間做什么

And so the key to time management is treating our priorities as the equivalent of that broken water heater.

所以時(shí)間管理的關(guān)鍵就是對(duì)待重要的事情就像對(duì)待壞掉的水管一樣或油，

To get at this,I like to use languager from one of the busiest people I ever interviewed.

By busy,I mean she was running a small bussiness with 12 people on the payroll, she had six children in her spare time,I was getting in touch with her to set up an interview on how she "had it all"...that phrase. I remember it was a Thursday morning,and she was not availiable to speak with me.of course,right? But the reason she was unavailable to speak with me is that she was out for a hike,because it was a beautiful spring moring,and she wanted to go for a hike.So of course this makes me even more intrigued,and when I finally do catch up with her, she explains it like this.she says,"Listen Laura,everything I do, every minute I spend,is my choice"

And rather than say,"I don't have time to do x,y or z." because it's not a priority.

“I don't have time” often means "It's not a priority."

我沒有時(shí)間 意味著 這件事對(duì)我不重要

If you think about it,that's really more accurate language.

I could tell you I don't have time to dust my blinds,but that's not true. If you offered to pay me $100000 to dust my blinds, I would get to it pretty quickly.

Since that is not going to happen,I can acknoeledge this is not matter of lacking time; it's that I don't want to do it.

Using this language reminds us that time is a choice. And granted,

there may be horrible consequences for making different choices, I will give you that, But we are smart people,

and certainly over the long run, we have the power to fill our lives with the things that deserve to be there.

So how do we do that? How do we treate our priorities as the equivalent of that broken water heater?

Well,first we need to figure out what they are.

I want to give you two strategies for thinking about this,

The first , ont the professional side:I'm sure many people coming up to the end of the year are giving or getting annual performance reviews.

You look back over your success over the year,your " opportunities for growth"And this serves its purpose,but I ifnd ?it's more effective to do this looking forward.So I want you to pretend it's the end of next year. you're giving yourself a performance review, and it has been an absolutely amazing year for you professiionally.

What three to five things did you do that made it so amzing?

So you can write next year's performance review now.

And you can do this for your personal lift,too.

I'm sure many of you,like me,come December, get cars that contain these folded up sheets of colored paper,on which is written what is known as the family holiday letter.

Bit of a wretched genre of literature,really, going on about how amazing everyone int the household is,or even more scintillating, how busy everyone in the household is.But these letters serve a purpose, which is that they tell your friends and family waht you did in your personal life that mattered to you over the year.

So this year's kind of done,but I want you to pretend it's the end of next year, and it has been an absolutely amazing year for you and the people you care about.

What three to five things did you do that made it so amazing?

so you can write next year's family holiday letter now. Don't send it. please , don't send it. but you can write it,And now,

between the performance review and the family holiday letter, we have a list of six to ten goals we can work on in the next year,

And now we need to break these down into doable steps.

so maybe you want to write a affamily history.

First,you canread some other family historyies,get a sense for the style. Then maybe think about the questions you want to ask you relatives, set up appointments to interview them.Or maybe you want to run a 5K,so you need to find a race and sign up, figure out a training plan, and dig those shoes out of the back of the closet. And then...this is key.. we treat our priorities as the equivalent of that broken water heater, by putting them into our schedules first.?

we do this by thinking through our weeks before we are in them.

I find a really good time to do this is Firday afternoons。

Friday afternoon is what an economist might call ?a low opportunity cost time,

Most of us are not sitting there on Friday afternoons saying,"I am excited to make progress toward my personal and professional priorities right now." But we are willing to think about what those should be.

So take a little bit of time Friday afternoon,make yourself a three-category priority list:: career,relationships,self

Making a three-category list reminds us that there should be something in all three categories.

Career,we think about, relationships ,self.. but not so much

But anyway,just a short list, two to three items in each.Then look out over the whole of the next week, and see where you can plan them in.

where you plan them in is up to you.and I know this is going to be more complicated for some people than others.

I mean, some people's lives are just harder than others,

It is not going to be easy to find time to take that poetry calss if you are caring for multiple children onyour own. I get that.

?And I don't want to minimize anyone's struggle.

But I do think that the numbers I am about to tell you are empowering,

There are 168 hours in a week. ?That is a lot of time.

If you are working a full-time job,so 40 hours a week, sleeping eight hours a night, so 56hours a week..that leaves 72 hours for other things, That is a lot of time. You say you're working 50 hours a week, maybe a main job and a side hustle. Well, tha leaves 62 hours for other things. ?you say you're working 60 hours, Well,that leaves 52 hours for other things. ?you say you're working more than 60 hours. well,are you sure?

There was once a study comparing people's estimated work weeks with time diaries. They found that poeple claiming 75-plus-hours work weeks were off by abou 25 hours.

You can guess in which direction,reight?

Anyway,in 168 hours a week, I think we can find time for what matters to you. If you want to spend more time with you kids,you want to study more for a test you're taking, you want to exercise for three hours and volunteer for two, you can.

And tha's even if you're working way more than full-time hours.So we have plenty of time,which is great, because guess what?

we don't even need that much time to do amazing things.

But when most of us have bits of time,what do we do?

pull out the phone,right?

start deleting emails,Otherwise , we're puttering aroung the house or watching Tv.

But small moments can have greate power.

you can use you bits of time for bits of joy.

Maybe it's choosing to read something wonderfunl on the bus on the way to work.

I known when I had a job that required two bus rides and a subway ride every morning,, I used to go to the library on the weekends to get stuff to read. It made the whole experience almost,almost,enjoyable.

Breaks at work can be used for meditating or praying.

If family dinner is out because of your crazy work schedule maybe family breakfast could be a good substitute.

It's about looking at the whole of one's time and seeing where the good stuff can go.

I truly believe this. There is time,even if we are busy,we have time for what matters. And when focus on what matters,we can build the lives we want ?in the time we've got.

我堅(jiān)信這一點(diǎn)驰唬，時(shí)間總是有的顶岸，即使我們?cè)倜?我們也有時(shí)間去做我們想做的事情腔彰，而當(dāng)我們專注與這件事情的時(shí)候，我們就能利用我們擁有的時(shí)間打造我們想要的生活辖佣。