Anonymous
無名氏
The tides advance; the tides recede. Winter goes and summer comes. Summer wanes and the cold increases. The sun rises; the sun sets. The moon is full;the moon is black. The birds arrive! The birds depart. Flowers bloom; flowers fade. All nature is a circle of moods and i am a part of nature and so, like the tides, my moods will rise; my moods will fall.
潮起潮落郑现,春去秋來湃崩。日升日落荧降,月圓月缺。狗叫貓來竹习,花飛花謝誊抛。自然萬物如情緒般循環(huán)往復(fù)列牺,作為自然的一部分整陌,我也不例外。如潮水一樣瞎领,我的情緒也是時(shí)漲落泌辫。
It is one of nature’s tricks, little understood, that each day I awaken with moods that have changed from yesterday. Yesterday’s joy will become today’s sadness; yet today’s sadness will grow into tomorrow’s joy. Inside me is a wheel, constantly turning from sadness to joy, from exultation to depression, from happiness to melancholy. Like the flowers, today’s full bloom of joy will fade and withers into despondency, yet I will remember that as today’s dead flower carries the seed of tomorrow’s bloom so, too, does today’s sadness carry the seed of tomorrow’s joy.
我每天醒來,情緒總是和昨天不同九默,這是大自然的天機(jī)之一震放,難以理解。
昨天的快樂可能成為今天的悲傷驼修;今天的悲傷也可能成為明天的快樂殿遂。我的身體里面好像有一個(gè)轉(zhuǎn)輪,悲傷乙各,快樂墨礁,興奮,絕望耳峦,幸福恩静,憂郁之間不停轉(zhuǎn)換。如花蹲坷,綻放的喜悅會(huì)慢慢蛻變成凋謝的絕望驶乾,然而枯萎的花朵也同樣孕育著即將綻放的種子,正如今天的悲傷正醞釀著明天的快樂循签。
And how will I master these emotions so that each day will be productive? For unless my mood is right the day will be a failure. trees and plants depend on the weather to flourish but i make my own weather, yea I transport it with me.
And how will I master my emotions so that every day is a happy day, and a productive one? I will learn this secret of the ages: weak is he who permits his thoughts to control his actions; strong is he who forces his actions to control his thoughts. Each day, when i awaken, I will follow this plan of battle before I am captured by the forces of sadness, self-pity and failure—
if I? feel depressed I will sing.
If I feel sad I will laugh.
If I feel ill I will double my labor.
If I feel fear I will plunge ahead.
If I feel inferior I will wear new garments.
If I feel uncertain I will raise my voice.
If I? feel poverty I will think of wealth to come.
If I feel incompetent I will remember past success.
If I feel insignificant I? will remember my goals.
Henceforth, I will know that only those with inferior abilities can always be at their best, and i am not inferior. There will be days when i must constantly struggle against forces which would tear me down. Those such as? despair and sadness are simple to recognize but there are others which approach with a smile and the hand of friendship and they can also destroy me. Against them, too, I must? never relinquish control—
我該怎樣掌控這些情緒级乐,才能讓每一天都過得很充實(shí)?一旦情緒不對(duì)县匠,這一整天都會(huì)在失敗中度過风科。植物的茂盛依靠氣候變化,我可以創(chuàng)造屬于自己的氣候聚唐,沒錯(cuò)丐重,我能自控。那么我要怎樣掌控自己的情緒杆查,才能讓每一天都很充實(shí)扮惦,愉快呢?我要學(xué)習(xí)這個(gè)古老的秘方:弱者亲桦,情緒操控行為崖蜜;強(qiáng)者浊仆,行為操控情緒。每天醒來豫领,當(dāng)我被悲傷抡柿,自憐,失敗的情緒包圍等恐,我都會(huì)這樣與之對(duì)抗—
沮喪時(shí)洲劣,放聲歌唱。
悲傷時(shí)课蔬,開懷大笑囱稽。
苦惱時(shí),加倍勞作二跋。
恐懼時(shí)战惊,勇往直前。
低人一等時(shí)扎即,換上新裝吞获。
猶豫不決時(shí),加大說話音量谚鄙。
囊中羞澀時(shí)各拷,想象財(cái)富將至。
力不從心時(shí)襟锐,想想過去的成就撤逢。
身份卑微時(shí),想想自己的偉大理想粮坞。
今后蚊荣,我要認(rèn)識(shí)到自我設(shè)限是無能之輩,而我絕非無能之輩莫杈。有時(shí)我必須不斷地與那些想摧毀我的情緒對(duì)抗互例。失望與悲傷很容易察覺,有些情緒帶著微笑筝闹,并伸出友誼之手靠近我媳叨,不易察覺,它們卻也能將我毀于無形关顷。我同樣要與它們對(duì)抗糊秆,永不放棄控制權(quán)。
If I become overconfident I will recall my failure.
If I overindulge I will think of past hungers.
If I feel complacent I will remember my competition.
If I enjoy moments of greatness I will remember moments of shame.
If I feel all-powerful I will try to stop the wind.
If I attain great wealth I? will one unfed mouth.
If I become overly proud I will remember a moment of weakness.
If I feel my skill is unmatched I will look at the stars.
Henceforth I will recognize and identify the mystery of moods in all mankind, and in me. From this moment I am prepared to control whatever personality awakes in me each day. I will master my moods through positive action and when I master my moods I? will control my destiny. I will become a master? of myself. I will become great.
變得自負(fù)時(shí)议双,想想過去的失落痘番。
過度放縱時(shí),想想過去的饑渴。
自滿時(shí)汞舱,想想競(jìng)爭(zhēng)的殘酷伍纫。
居功自傲?xí)r,想想曾經(jīng)的羞辱昂芜。
自己覺得無所不能時(shí)莹规,試試去呼風(fēng)喚雨。
得到巨大財(cái)富時(shí)泌神,想想餓肚子的人良漱。
不可一世的時(shí)候,想想自己怯弱的時(shí)候腻扇。
覺得技藝過人時(shí)债热,看看漫天的星星。
今后幼苛,要洞察人類情緒變化奧秘,包括自己的焕刮。從這一刻始舶沿,準(zhǔn)備好控制各種情緒變化,一旦控制了自己的情緒配并,就掌控了自己的命運(yùn)括荡。
做自己的主人,我將優(yōu)秀卓越溉旋。
————————————-
外國(guó)人畸冲,很重視情緒管理,心里分析之類观腊,也喜歡排比句邑闲,搞氣氛。
起來梧油,不要成為情緒的奴隸苫耸,要為自主而戰(zhàn)斗。
翻身做主儡陨,有方法褪子,
簡(jiǎn)單說,注意平衡骗村,守住中道嫌褪,參考阿貴的思考模式。
混的不好的時(shí)候胚股,敢于穿很貴的衣服笼痛,走路要有架子;
混的好的時(shí)候信轿,不要忘本晃痴,
狗富貴了残吩,想想貓,不能忘本倘核。
看來泣侮,人生的道理,說出來紧唱,都差不多活尊。