If I don't know where to go, make a list what I want to do. In which there are at best less than ten goals. Look at them carefully, and then find out what are more important than the other else, what is the most important goal. Set the most important goal as a flag, and then keep going toward it.

如果我不知道去向哪里龄广，制定一個我想要做的事情清單，內(nèi)中最好不超過10個目標(biāo)巧骚。仔細(xì)地分析它們吭产，找出那個最重要的目標(biāo)个从，把它設(shè)定為一個flag脉幢，然后向著它持續(xù)行動。

In our everyday life, there are many chances for us to choose. Each chance may bring us into a strangy area, that can be fantastic, that can be exciting, that can also bring us into failure and even disasters. We always don't understand what would happen to us in the future. What should we choose?

在我們生活的每一天嗦锐，我們會有很多機(jī)會可以選擇嫌松。每一個機(jī)會都可能把我們帶入一個神奇的領(lǐng)域，讓人著迷奕污，讓人興奮萎羔。也可能把我們帶入困境，甚至災(zāi)難碳默。我們總是不知道未來將發(fā)生什么贾陷，我們該如何選擇呢缘眶？

If there is one thing that the most important for us worth doing , whatever it is, whatever it should be in the future, we should try our best to do it well. Never mind those who will laugh at you. Actually, they never care about where you want to go. Even if where you come from.

如果有一件最重要的事情值得去做，不管它是什么髓废，不管它將來會怎么樣巷懈，我們都應(yīng)該盡力把它做好。永遠(yuǎn)不要在意誰會嘲笑你慌洪。事實(shí)上顶燕，沒人會在乎你要去往何處，更不會有人在乎你從哪里來蒋譬。

Maybe you will fail, maybe you will win. Who can care about you? That is the only thing you own need. So you must? focus your own and your attention on what you must do and what you love doing. Never mind how much it will rewards you.

或許你會失敗割岛，或許你會成功，誰會在乎你呢犯助？那不過是你自己的需求罷了。因此维咸，你必須聚焦于你自己和你自己的注意力于那些你必須做和你熱愛做的人和事剂买。絕不在意它是否帶給你回報(bào)。

Gradually, you go over a long term, you will find that you are closer to the flag, and the flag is also coming to you continously. The longer you keep going, the more exciting you feel, there will be a serendipity ahead waiting for you.

慢慢地癌蓖，你經(jīng)歷了很長的一段時間瞬哼，你發(fā)現(xiàn)你越來越接近自己的flag， 那個flag也在不斷地向你靠攏租副。你保持行動的時間越長坐慰，你越感到興奮，前方有驚喜在等著你用僧。

There is an example I am experiencing. I was fat when I was 97.5 kg before February 15 in 2021. I joined the group On Regular Investing that day. The first time I met one of the core value "workout", I felt? happy. How simple it is. I only need to walk my first step and keep going.

舉個我親身經(jīng)歷的例子：之前我體重97.5kg,大家都說我肥结胀。2021年2月15日我加入了定投課堂，課堂的核心價值觀之一就是健身责循。我很高興糟港，太簡單了吧，我只需要邁出第一步院仿，然后持續(xù)做就好啦秸抚。

I set a flag to decrease my weight for more than ten killograms in one year. And then I start to run for 3-6 killometres away every day, whatever it's windy or it's rain. When the flag was due to, my weight was 84 killograms. I successfully decreased my weight 13.5 killograms. I had successfully reached my flag.

我給自己設(shè)立了一個flag ---- 一年內(nèi)減重不少于10kg。然后歹垫，我開始每一天跑步3-6km,風(fēng)雨無阻剥汤。一年時間到了，我的體重變成了84kg,我成功地在一年內(nèi)減重13.5kg排惨，我成功地摘取了我的flag吭敢。

Success doesn't mean an end point. It's only a new beginning in our life. If we look success as an end point, it's no doubt that we will come back to the primary start point soon. Because we have our own weight.

人生中，成功不是終點(diǎn)若贮，它只不過是一個新的起點(diǎn)省有。如果我們視其為終點(diǎn)痒留，毫無疑問，我們將重新回到原點(diǎn)蠢沿。因?yàn)槲覀冇兄亓Α?/h2>

When I reached my flag at that moment, I started to display my achievement everywhere without keeping going. Day after day, I find that my weight is increasing. I almost hard to run quickly.? I go back to be fat. I am a little sad. I am a little anxiety. What my older daught said on a party on september 16 in 2022? knocked at my head.

當(dāng)我達(dá)到flag的那一刻伸头，我開始到處炫耀我的成績，而不再持續(xù)做使我成功的那件事了舷蟀。時間一天天過去恤磷，我發(fā)現(xiàn)體重又回來了，我?guī)缀醪荒芸焖倥軇右耙恕Ｎ矣肿兊梅逝至松ú剑矣幸稽c(diǎn)點(diǎn)沮喪，還有一點(diǎn)點(diǎn)焦慮匈子。2022年9月16日大女兒在朋友聚會上的一句話驚醒了我河胎。

She said, if you want to be a succussful people, how can you imagine a person who even can't decrease his weight? A simple goal you can't reach, how can you think about an even complex goal else? I believe that you can control yourself. Can't you?

她說：“如果想要成為一個成功的人，一個連減肥都做不到的人怎么可能做到成功虎敦？一個簡單的目標(biāo)都不能達(dá)成游岳，何論其它復(fù)雜的夢想？我相信你能管好自己其徙，不是嗎胚迫？”

My face was quite red at that moment. I standed up with speaking aloudly. I said, of course I can. See me 110 days later. I set a flag to decrease my weight for more than ten killograms in 110 days since then, before January 1 in 2023. There are more than ten people in the party. After saying like this, there is a flag in my mind once again.

我的臉騰地紅了。我站起來大聲宣稱唾那，我能做到,110天后再來看我访锻。我設(shè)定了一個flag，從那時開始闹获，110天之內(nèi)減重不少于10kg期犬。也就是說，最遲在2022年最后一天要摘下這面flag昌罩。十多個人見證了我立下flag的過程哭懈。那一刻，我心中又有了一面flag茎用。

I weighted my body when I came back home. It was 90.6 killograms. I knew that I was on my way back to the start point. If I look this point as a new point, my new flag must be 80.6 killograms. Couldn't I set my flag at the point of 79 killograms? Let me try.

回到家后遣总，我立刻測量了自己的體重 ---- 90.6kg。我知道我正在返回原點(diǎn)的路上轨功。如果我以此刻為一個新的起點(diǎn)旭斥，我的flag就插在80.6kg上。我可不可以把flag插在79kg上呢古涧？試試看垂券。

The rest thing is very simple, control my mouth, walk out my feet, and keep going. The simple doesn't mean the easy. Each time I take party with my friends, I can't control my mouth. Each time my work is busy, I can't walk out my feet. When I decrease my weight a little， I feel happy. When I increase my weight much more, I feel very sad.

接下來的事情很簡單：管住嘴，邁開腿菇爪，并持續(xù)做到算芯。簡單并不意味著容易。每一次和朋友聚會凳宙，我都管不住自己的嘴熙揍。每一次工作忙的時候，我都邁不開自己的腿氏涩。當(dāng)體重降一點(diǎn)點(diǎn)届囚，我開心極了。當(dāng)體重反彈上升很多,我就很不開心是尖。

To my surprise, it's very hard to do such a simple thing daily. Can't I reach my goal? Of course I can. I must have my own rule and follow it seriously. If I can't do a simple thing like decreasing my weigh, I can do nothing. This is my first step to be success self-made millionaire.

我竟然很難每天做好如此簡單的一件事情意系。我還能達(dá)到我的目標(biāo)嗎？我當(dāng)然能饺汹。我必須有規(guī)則并嚴(yán)格按規(guī)則去做蛔添。如果我連減重這樣簡單的事都做不到，那我將一事無成兜辞。這是我通向財(cái)富自由的第一步作郭。

Today is November 24 in 2022. It's the 69th day to my flag. There is 41 days remain to the flag. I weight my body this morning, it is 83.1 killograms. I must decrease my weight at least 4.1 killograms in the rest 41 days. The same as I must decrease my weight at least 0.1 killogram per day, can I reach my goal? I think I can. I must can. Set a flag and then keep going toward it. See you 41 days later.

今天是2022年11月24日，是我通向flag的第69天弦疮，還有41天。今天早上我的體重測量值為83.1kg蜘醋，我在41天里至少要減重4.1kg胁塞。也就是說每天至少0.1kg。我能做到嗎压语？我想我能啸罢，我必須能。設(shè)定一個flag胎食，然后向著它持續(xù)行動扰才。41天后，我們再見厕怜。

Yours, Bin Xiao. Written on November 24 in 2022 in the City Mianyang.

肖斌衩匣，2022年11月24日于綿陽。