What one thing do you wish you had known about life when you were in your 20s?
你希望自己20多歲時知道關(guān)于生活的哪些事坞靶？
Dear Young Bill,
親愛的比爾楊
1.Porn is Ruining Your Sex Life-So install a porn blocker and give Joey the Password憔狞。
1.A片會毀掉你的性生活，安裝一個A片攔截器然后把密碼給喬伊彰阴。
2.Life isn’t a Rom-Com-You aren’t going to marry Carol, stop trying to earn love, if a girl likes you awesome, if they don’t stop wasting your time.
2.生活不是一場浪漫的情感電影-你是要嫁給卡羅爾瘾敢，不要嘗試去獲得愛，如果一個女孩喜歡你太棒了尿这，如果女孩不停的浪費(fèi)你的時間簇抵。
3.Your Parents Are Amazing -Call Them More
3.你爸媽很棒，經(jīng)常打電話給他們
4.You’re Not Special -You make yourself special using two tools, discipline and courage.
4.你不是特殊的妻味，你要用兩種工具讓自己特殊起來正压，紀(jì)律和勇氣
5.Say No When You Want To -Learn to say no more. That’s how you focus, by saying no to distractions and people.
5.當(dāng)想說不的時候說不，學(xué)會說不责球。那會讓你保持專注焦履，對分心的事物和人說不拓劝。
6.Stop Planning -You have these huge plans for your life. None of these plans work. Just pick the direction you want your life to go and cultivate skills that are going to make that journey easier.
6.停止計劃，你的生活有很多的大計劃嘉裤，這些計劃都沒有起作用郑临。選擇你想讓你生活到達(dá)的方向，培養(yǎng)將會是這個旅途很輕松的技能屑宠。
7.Laugh at Being Jealous -You get jealous a lot, it’s not a big deal. When you do get jealous, say what you’re upset about out loud and start laughing. It will make you feel better and it stops you from taking yourself so seriously.
7.笑對嫉妒厢洞，你肯定會嫉妒，沒什么大不了的典奉。當(dāng)你有些嫉妒時躺翻，把你不爽的地方大聲說出來，然后笑給自己看卫玖。這會讓你感覺好些公你，不會再把自己的嫉妒看的太認(rèn)真。
8.Don’t be Afraid of Being Alone -Time alone isn’t something to run away from it is to be cherished. So work on those novels and screenplays, go to the gym and read books -don’t cry, cultivate skills.
8.不要害怕孤單假瞬，珍視孤單的時間而不是逃避它陕靠。把時間放在小說和劇本上，去健身房和看書脱茉，不要大叫剪芥，培養(yǎng)技能。
9.Stop Drinking -I know blasphemous, but when you’re 24 you quit drinking and you’re able to have even more fun when you go out to party and you save a lot of time not being hungover.
9.不要醉酒琴许，我知道有點不尊重税肪，當(dāng)你24歲的時候停止喝酒，當(dāng)你去派對上可以省好多時間找到快樂而不是直接喝多了虚吟。
10.Work-Out -In the future you’re really muscular, part of what’s keeping you from going to the gym now is that you think you can’t put on muscle, you can, so start lifting.
10.鍛煉身體寸认，未來你一定會很強(qiáng)壯签财，你不去健身房健身的部分原因是你覺得自己不會增長肌肉的串慰，你能的，所以開始舉重鍛煉吧唱蒸。
11.Listen to Audiobooks When You Drive and Walk -You waste a lot of time listening to the same songs, over and over again. Listen to audiobooks, you’ll learn a lot and sound smarter.
11.當(dāng)你開車或走路時邦鲫，聽聽有聲書-你花了太多的時間挺相同的歌曲，一次又一次的神汹。聽聽有聲書庆捺，你會學(xué)到很多的。
12.Learn the Rules of Life -Look at life as it is not as you wish it to be.
There are unspoken rules in life, find out what they are and make them work in your favor. This means reading self-development books about relationships, discipline, mastery, economics and body language. Also talk to your Dad more (See #3) because he’s unbelievably wise and you’re unbelievably foolish.
12.領(lǐng)會生活的法則屁魏√弦裕看待生活并不如你所愿。生活中有很多不言而喻的法則氓拼，找到它們你画，讓其幫助自己抵碟。意味著看一些自我提升的書，關(guān)于經(jīng)驗坏匪，精通拟逮，經(jīng)濟(jì)和肢體語言的∈首遥可以多和老爸聊聊敦迄，因為他們可能很睿智，而你非常的蠢凭迹。
13.Take One Risk a Day- These risks should be to make you better not worse (This isn’t a license to drive drunk), so email CEO’s and talk to pretty girls, you’d be surprised how much doing stuff like this will impact your life.
13.每日一個挑戰(zhàn)罚屋，這些挑戰(zhàn)應(yīng)該是讓你變得更好的而不是更糟糕的（比如去酒駕），比如給CEO發(fā)郵件嗅绸，和漂亮的女生說話沿后，你會驚喜的發(fā)現(xiàn)這些挑戰(zhàn)會對你的生活產(chǎn)生巨大的影響。
Bill your life turns out great, and you are on a path for success, but if you did these things earlier, you would have enjoyed life more along the way. These things will not only make you more successful, they will make you happier while striving for success.
給你的人生定個目標(biāo)也很棒朽砰，你會通往成功的道路尖滚，如果你能提早做這些事，你會更加享受自己的人生瞧柔。這些事不但會使你更加成功漆弄，也會讓你為成功而奮斗的過程更快樂。
原文作者及出處：William Beteet, from Quora
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