Should children be sent overseas at a young age?
孩子應(yīng)該在年輕時(shí)被送到海外嗎舆驶?我持否定的態(tài)度干发,原因有以下4點(diǎn)
1. 國(guó)內(nèi)的教育并不比國(guó)外差
我承認(rèn)國(guó)外的教育可以讓孩子們參加更多的實(shí)踐活動(dòng)绰播,讓孩子們眼界更開(kāi)闊,思維也更加的活躍,可是國(guó)內(nèi)的初中高中真的沒(méi)有國(guó)外好嗎?國(guó)內(nèi)的基礎(chǔ)教育是全球第一腊状,基礎(chǔ)教育培養(yǎng)孩子對(duì)事物的判斷以及對(duì)祖國(guó)的認(rèn)知感有很重要的作用,如果過(guò)早的去國(guó)外讀書(shū)苔可,可能會(huì)導(dǎo)致舍本求末的結(jié)局
1.The level of education in china is not worse than that in foreign countries.
? ?I admit that foreign education can help children participate in more practical activities, broaden their horizons, and make their thinking more active. But is it true that domestic schools are not as good as foreign schools? As we all know China's basic education is the first in the world. Basic education plays an important role in cultivating children's sense of judgment and understanding of the motherland.If children go abroad to study too early, it may have?the?order?reversed.
2. 遠(yuǎn)離親人親情疏遠(yuǎn)缴挖,容易產(chǎn)生心理問(wèn)題
留學(xué)低齡化的趨勢(shì)導(dǎo)致父母與孩子過(guò)早的分離,孩子的健康成長(zhǎng)離不開(kāi)家長(zhǎng)的教育和影響焚辅,而且孩子年齡越小映屋,父母的影響則越發(fā)重要,父母是孩子人生的第一老師同蜻,教會(huì)孩子禮貌棚点,人生態(tài)度以及價(jià)值觀等,過(guò)早的獨(dú)自去國(guó)外留學(xué)埃仪,在家長(zhǎng)的監(jiān)督之外乙濒,沒(méi)法感受到孩子的心里變化,很容易產(chǎn)生一些心理問(wèn)題卵蛉,會(huì)影響其個(gè)人的健康發(fā)展。
2.It is easy to have psychological problems away from relatives.
The trend of the younger age of studying abroad leads to the premature separation of parents and children. The healthy growth of children is inseparable from the education and influence of parents. The younger the children are, the more important the influence of parents is. Parents are the first teachers of their children's life, teach them courtesy, life attitude and values, and go abroad alone too early. Studying abroad, in addition to the supervision of parents, can not feel the changes in children's hearts, it is easy to produce some psychological problems, will affect their personal healthy development.
3.出國(guó)導(dǎo)致人才流失和疏遠(yuǎn)中國(guó)文化
對(duì)于國(guó)家和社會(huì)而言么库,
低齡化的趨勢(shì)導(dǎo)致父母盲目跟風(fēng)以及人才流失傻丝,據(jù)統(tǒng)計(jì),2014年我國(guó)出國(guó)留學(xué)人員總數(shù)為39.96萬(wàn)人诉儒,其中自費(fèi)留學(xué)37.45萬(wàn)人葡缰。
隨著收入的增加越來(lái)越多的家長(zhǎng)愿意把自己的孩子送出國(guó),也沒(méi)有考慮孩子自己的意愿忱反,一心想著“外國(guó)的月亮比較圓”泛释,隨著大流就把孩子盲目的送出國(guó),另外温算,?據(jù)調(diào)查怜校,留學(xué)生的回國(guó)率只有三成,為什么他們不愿意回國(guó)呢注竿?我想不僅因?yàn)閲?guó)外的月亮圓茄茁,更多的是因?yàn)樗麄儚男∪?guó)外讀書(shū)魂贬,沒(méi)有很好的接受中國(guó)文化熏陶,導(dǎo)致對(duì)國(guó)家的認(rèn)知感和歸屬感降低
3.Going abroad leads to brain drain and far away from Chinese culture.
?For the country and society, the trend of younger age leads to parents blindly following the trend and brain drain. According to statistics, in 2014, the total number of Chinese students studying abroad was 399,600, including 374,500 students studying at their own expense.
With the increase of income, more and more parents are willing to send their children abroad, without considering their children's own wishes, thinking "the moon is more round in foreign countries", and blindly sending their children abroad with the flow. In addition, according to the survey, the return rate of foreign students is only 30%, why are they unwilling to return home? What? I think it's not only because the moon is full abroad, but also because they went abroad to study when they were young and didn't accept the influence of Chinese culture very well, which leads to a lower sense of recognition and belonging to the country.
4.自控力不好會(huì)誤入歧途
由于文化差異裙顽,國(guó)外環(huán)境相比國(guó)內(nèi)更為開(kāi)放付燥,也更具誘惑性,自控能力差的同學(xué)容易受到不良誘惑愈犹,誤入歧途键科。如果沒(méi)有學(xué)到真正的知識(shí),會(huì)白白浪費(fèi)幾年光陰和大筆金錢漩怎。
4. Poor self-control will lead to astray
Due to cultural differences, foreign environments are more open and more tempting than domestic ones. Students with poor self-control are vulnerable to bad temptations and go astray. Without learning real knowledge, it would be a waste of years and lots of money.
總結(jié)
在孩子未成年前將孩子送到國(guó)外勋颖,在我看來(lái)是父母的一種不負(fù)責(zé)任的行為,無(wú)論是父母沒(méi)有盡到教育的任務(wù)扬卷,還是父母為了互相攀比的面子問(wèn)題牙言,或者是父母的事業(yè)太忙而為了省事等等,我覺(jué)得在孩子未成年的時(shí)候讓孩子留學(xué)都是一種得不償失的行為怪得,這種留學(xué)熱現(xiàn)象確實(shí)該值得我們深思咱枉。
IN MY OPINION
It seems to me that it is irresponsible for parents to send their children abroad before they are children, whether they fail to fulfill their educational tasks, or whether they are trying to compare with other parents, or if their parents are too busy with their careers to save time and so on. I think it is irresponsible for them to study abroad when they are children. This is an act of greater loss than profit.?And this phenomenon of studying abroad deserves our deep consideration.
1.The level of education in china is not worse than that in foreign countries.
? ?I admit that foreign education can help children participate in more practical activities, broaden their horizons, and make their thinking more active. But is it true that domestic schools are not as good as foreign schools? As we all know China's basic education is the first in the world. Basic education plays an important role in cultivating children's sense of judgment and understanding of the motherland.If children go abroad to study too early, it may have?the?order?reversed.
2.It is easy to have psychological problems away from relatives.
The trend of the younger age of studying abroad leads to the premature separation of parents and children. The healthy growth of children is inseparable from the education and influence of parents. The younger the children are, the more important the influence of parents is. Parents are the first teachers of their children's life, teach them courtesy, life attitude and values, and go abroad alone too early. Studying abroad, in addition to the supervision of parents, can not feel the changes in children's hearts, it is easy to produce some psychological problems, will affect their personal healthy development.
3.Going abroad leads to brain drain and far away from Chinese culture.
?For the country and society, the trend of younger age leads to parents blindly following the trend and brain drain. According to statistics, in 2014, the total number of Chinese students studying abroad was 399,600, including 374,500 students studying at their own expense.
With the increase of income, more and more parents are willing to send their children abroad, without considering their children's own wishes, thinking "the moon is more round in foreign countries", and blindly sending their children abroad with the flow. In addition, according to the survey, the return rate of foreign students is only 30%, why are they unwilling to return home? What? I think it's not only because the moon is full abroad, but also because they went abroad to study when they were young and didn't accept the influence of Chinese culture very well, which leads to a lower sense of recognition and belonging to the country.
4. Poor self-control will lead to astray
Due to cultural differences, foreign environments are more open and more tempting than domestic ones. Students with poor self-control are vulnerable to bad temptations and go astray. Without learning real knowledge, it would be a waste of years and lots of money.
IN MY OPINION
It seems to me that it is irresponsible for parents to send their children abroad before they are children, whether they fail to fulfill their educational tasks, or whether they are trying to compare with other parents, or if their parents are too busy with their careers to save time and so on. I think it is irresponsible for them to study abroad when they are children. This is an act of greater loss than profit.?And this phenomenon of studying abroad deserves our deep consideration.