Be a warm person

When you are not happy , you may hope a warm person who can affect you a little bit as well.

Life is not always smooth including ups and downs. You may live a good or bad? day as your own days.No matter a day is good or bad, good day gives you joy while bad day gives your experience. Every single day is meaningful and counting for you. Take today as an example, in the daytime, I felt a little depressed and I felt people around me who also look down on me. Because I have communicated with a senior nurse, I have told her my difficulties about my current job situation . I seek to change a little in the near future .I hope she can help me. She supports a part of my plan . People always say nobody has responsibility to help you. I think it's truth in the reality. Always being thankful.After that of today, i am a little depressed when I saw people and things and even whole environment like wearing apair of glasses with distorted lenses. Then i decided to ride a bike to home. Actually the weather is good with mild wind. Many people and cars are occupying the border roads. I am riding carefully to handle my bike while observing this city.In the evening, I changed my attitude totally when I saw things from another angle.Because i am lucky to hear that someone said I am a warm person . Things I see are with smiles. It's miracle. Changing your attitude can change your mind.

Everyone has their difficulties perhaps , because there are huge population in this world. I have remembered about ten days ago, we have been volunteers to help disabled people to get involved in this society by spending time with them in xihu park.Some people are orphans with physical or mental disabilities . But they are optimistic and confident in their inner heart.? They are trying to give performance to us even a few of them can't pronounce a single word. But they are singing to give us a show as well .In some ways, they are also lucky relatively, because they are sponsored by an international charity organization. They are caring by many aunt staffs. For us normal ones,we need to cherish our life and do many meaningful things for others.

Another example, a fatter boy from other country went to visit our hospital before . But recently he fallen down in an accident . He asked people for help financially and undergoing his rehabilitation in other hospital. He is also confident with his trying standing performance . From this,I think you will be not beaten down by difficulties with your strong will and your confidence.

However, now I am thinking about how to make us happy in health, wealth , love, wellbeing? A middle age lady thought , if her child listens to her, her husband is happy, her family is harmonious, her coworkers are understanding and supporting her in her work, she will feel it's a happy day. Otherwise, she thinks it's a bad day , she will feel a little depressed. A boy thought if he doesn't quarrel with closed people, he will feel happy. Because having a good mood is most important. If you quarrel with someone, you will have bad mood, it's harmful for your health. I couldn't agree that more. But sometimes we just can't control ourselves. After that, we regret to have that kind of situation. It's not necessary to have conflicts with others. Everyone with different experience and being in different fields have different opinions on the same things. I said if I have a fulfill day I will feel happy. Otherwise I feel I wasted a lot of time, and I feel anxious.

Someone said I am a warm person. Suddenly, I found being a warm person is very important. A girl who works in xiangya hospital sometimes complained about busy work and busy life by taking care her kid. Her husband takes her to meet us,we talk about our professional learning and I give her suggestions and confidence to her future learning. I see she is happy to predict her future. Actually she is more excellent than me in many ways. She just need a pern who can affect her a little bit warmly. That's why I think being a warm person is? very important.

We can't read a book by the cover, we can't read a person by her or his appearance. From his or her body language, we may get a part of information about this person. Some times we need to judge a person by the first impression to predict future cooperation.We can find something from body language such as postures, clothing and hairstyles.

On the other said, body language is an interesting as our secondary language. There are some reasons to support my opinions as following. Firstly, body language is more meaningful compared to your oral language . Sometimes it can can express your emotions instead of your words. For example, a smile may express you are charming person. Smile are mostly nice and beautiful. We can try to train us to be a nice person with smiles even though you are a serious person originally. Because smiles will make others people feel you are passionate and positive. Secondly, we always say eyes are the window of a? inner person. Your eyes will express your tolerance and respect for others. Thirdly,? the same body languages have different meanings in different cultures. All in all, body language is important thing for everyone . We need to pay attention to express your positive emotions through body language.

Being peaceful in your mind but being active in your body language.

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