今天讀了一篇文章---“孩子比賽時藕筋，父母不應(yīng)該做的事”一點小感觸，記錄下來自勉梳码。
做為父母隐圾， 我們常常太過在意孩子在體育，音樂和學(xué)習(xí)成績上的分?jǐn)?shù)或排名边翁◆岢校可往往，正是這種過于”認(rèn)真“毀了孩子對原本喜歡的事情的熱情符匾。我們?nèi)绻幂p松的心態(tài)陪伴和引導(dǎo)孩子的成長叨咖，可能會事半功倍。一輩子很長啊胶，成功是什么甸各，讓孩子自己去定義吧。
Sometimes we get very excited at sport and where we think we are being encouraging, all we are doing is adding greater pressure. Kids sport is about having fun with your friends. It is a structured form of play and we would all like it to be enjoyable. At this age it is not about competition and winning at all costs. We want children to develop skills, develop a passion for the particular sport they are involved in, keep healthy and active, and learn some valuable lessons that are transferrable across areas of everyday life. During sporting games children learn about solving problems and adapting to a variety of situations. They develop skills in cooperation, collaboration and teamwork. They will make mistakes and hopefully these will serve as moments of learning.
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