你有沒(méi)有過(guò)這樣的經(jīng)歷候生，在接下一件重要任務(wù)時(shí)同眯，在嘗試一件風(fēng)險(xiǎn)十足的新事物時(shí)，對(duì)未來(lái)發(fā)展的希望和成功感到無(wú)限渺茫唯鸭，一切都做最壞的打算须蜗。

可你又不甘心，不甘心哪怕是多微緲的光亮目溉，只要還有一絲可能明肮，就要嘗試，不顧一切去努力缭付。

而最后柿估，其實(shí)往往，你會(huì)成功陷猫。真正拼盡全力而失敗的秫舌，也不遺憾只厘，因?yàn)槟瞧鋵?shí)已經(jīng)比最壞的打算，優(yōu)秀了無(wú)數(shù)個(gè)檔次舅巷。

在看到韓雪的TED演講之前羔味，我并不知道，真的有積極的悲觀主義者這個(gè)解釋钠右。但我很榮幸在中學(xué)時(shí)赋元，就感悟到了這個(gè)心理特性。并且飒房，在大大小小的自我介紹中搁凸，我都會(huì)告訴別人，我是個(gè)樂(lè)觀的狠毯，悲觀主義者护糖。我為自己發(fā)現(xiàn)并精辟地總結(jié)出這個(gè)詞，而欣喜不已嚼松。但我確實(shí)嫡良，與韓雪介紹的，不謀而合献酗。

在我中考填報(bào)志愿的那年寝受，我有兩個(gè)選擇，一是去縣里的一中罕偎，二是去市里的中學(xué)很澄。市中學(xué)比縣里的教學(xué)水平高出N多，可縣里的中學(xué)可以進(jìn)奧賽班颜及，市里的中學(xué)不一定能進(jìn)甩苛，但是如果志愿報(bào)了市里的中學(xué)被落選，我就不能回縣里上俏站，只有復(fù)讀一年讯蒲。

但我還是選擇了市里的高中，因?yàn)槲覚?quán)衡的是乾翔，如果我落選了爱葵，復(fù)讀一年，我不過(guò)是比同年級(jí)人多讀一遍書(shū)反浓，年齡也未必比他們大萌丈，大不了就是沒(méi)面子，丟一年的面子雷则，這是最壞的結(jié)果辆雾。可如果我成功了呢月劈？我就可以接受更好的教育和學(xué)習(xí)環(huán)境度迂。事實(shí)上藤乙，當(dāng)年的選擇，讓我收益頗多惭墓。

我習(xí)慣把最壞的結(jié)果都拿出來(lái)擺在桌面上坛梁，問(wèn)問(wèn)自己，你可不可以接受腊凶。然后我會(huì)發(fā)現(xiàn)划咐，最壞的結(jié)果也不過(guò)如此，就大可以放手一搏钧萍，勇敢嘗試褐缠。

到了高中，每一次大考小考风瘦，對(duì)我來(lái)說(shuō)都是一次作戰(zhàn)队魏。看著自己的排名起起落落万搔，落了又落胡桨，常常懷疑自己，到底有沒(méi)有能力參加高考蟹略！可我在真正面臨高考的時(shí)候登失，又自動(dòng)恢復(fù)了我大腦的調(diào)節(jié)能力遏佣。我問(wèn)自己挖炬，如果真的高考考砸了，會(huì)怎么樣状婶？

不過(guò)是會(huì)上不了一本意敛，再不然上不了本科，上不了本科還有專升本的機(jī)會(huì)膛虫，再不然就是去技校草姻，總之我肯吃苦不怕累夠勤奮，不會(huì)餓死稍刀；我臉皮不夠厚撩独，但抵御閑話的能力還是有一些，也不怕別人噴我罵我不好好學(xué)習(xí)账月∽郯颍總之，我覺(jué)得最差的結(jié)果局齿，也就這些了剧劝。

然后我就放心去考試了，啥也沒(méi)想抓歼，反正無(wú)論如何我將來(lái)都能混口飯吃讥此，何必憂慮拢锹。

但其實(shí)，高考是我三年發(fā)揮最好的一次萄喳，從班前二十一躍成為班里第四卒稳。

所以你看，悲觀也是分層次的他巨。有人悲觀展哭，卻讓自己變得更好；有人悲觀闻蛀，卻讓自己一蹶不振匪傍。凡事都有兩面性，只看你怎么選擇觉痛。

在此役衡，分享一下韓雪在TEDxsuzhou上的英文演講稿。大家如果有興趣薪棒，可以去網(wǎng)上搜一下這個(gè)演講視頻手蝎，現(xiàn)場(chǎng)效果很棒。

Being a Positive Pessimist

Good afternoon everyone.

First let me share a piece of music with you.I know it's terrible, because I played.And i'm sorry it's not the worst one.I still got something to show you.Don't laught, it's an entire story.If you really want to understand what it is talking about俐芯？You can check my weibo later.This picture I painted last year.I have another one to show you, this is much better.This picture I painted, twenty years ago.

So I know you might have a question.How it is getting worse?And I also understand that most of your conclusion must be:out of imagination.

But how it happened.I think it is because I become an adult.Since we became adults.We started being afraid of making mistakes.We choose to be the best or nothing. So, we do not dare to try any mistakes.It seems that we trapped ourselves in the overprotective world.I sense them we started to lose a lot of, ability, like imagination, and creativity.

What is the strategy? For me I have a special one.It's been a positive, pessimistic.Let me explain the concept first.To be a pessimist means, you get low, expectation to yourself.And you prepared to lose.And what about being positive.It is easy to understand the means you make best effort on, a reason.But if you combine this concept together.It seems that a paradox.Yes I think so, but I hope so think it is the way the world is it born to be.

And it really works in the reality.We can always find something around us.They have totally opposite sizes two sides.And they combined together, and, work well together.

So how to be a positive, pessimist.Let me share some experience with you.I know i'm not old enough to tell stories.By these stories really meant to me.

The first one back to 2012,It's the first time I become a tv series producer.But as you know.I am, on the actress and singer.Work as a producer was totally unfamiliar for me.So you remember first I have to be, to pessimist.So I had to imagine, what will be the worst, consequence.I think that was the result must be no one, would buy it.And I will lose both, time and money.And the whole investment equal to the, revenue, I earned by, acting for the past few years.

And what about the whole market.You know in China, only 20% of the tv series, can finally, saddam, brown broadcast on tv.What about the rest 80%棵介？In the past, they just change into, a pipe or of tapes.And now even worse, we just only datas left.

So I asked myself several times ,Can you really accept the worst, consequences?I think yes, at least, I could try, so I started shooting.Remember, next step, I have to be positive.Because I am a huge digital fan,I decided to use some high technique to my tv series.So I focused on 4k resolution.What 4k is?

Let me explain.Usually, you see a film on the screen in the movie theater the size is 2k.What 4k means is four times larger than 2k.And also means 50mb per frame.You might still be a little bit confused.It's okay don't worry, you just have to remember, it was a Huge obstacle.

In front of all the tv series a group in china.Because before us, only a few groups try to 4k Resolution.They input 4k, but no one really tried to output 4k productions.Because it was really hard.

Only director zhang yimou was trying in his film, Coming Home, for the first time.And when we finished the shooting work when we entered The post production work,the real nightmare came.I still remember we want to output a five-minute trail for beijing tv festival.But after a whole day's working until the computer crashed, we just got 50 seconds trails.

I was crazy, what can I do ?This is a 30 episodes tv series.I just got 50 seconds, so I asked Our counselor, because at that time,our technical support was RED,Which is the biggest Digital camera Company, in america.Their feedback was, they use Hp base station in america.But we didn't have any hp base station in china.it was too expensive, we can not even afford that.

So we decided to assemble out black apple and we tried the outcome mode from dozens of combinations.After six months work we succeed.My tv series the ladies, Became the first tv series Which output real 4k a resolution production.And I succeeded in selling it And with a very good performance, on tv.

So after this experience,I learned, don't be afraid to take a huge challenges.You can prepared to lose, but conquer it with grit.

The next story happened last year,I took an invitation from BEAR GRYLLS is there anyone know that? If you know that you might thought I was crazy.

Yes, this man who stands on the top of the food chain.He almost eat everything.You might think I was crazy, yeah before that I did not, physical activities, I have very bad body condition.I was afraid of a lot of things, I was afraid of height and insects.I didn't even dare to take a roller coaster.

But I almost took this invitation immediately.Because I truly understand if I lost this chance.I would never earn it back in the rest of my life.So I decided to take the adventure.During the twenty days adventure, I caught rats,i caught mice, I ate insects.But I didn't drink the urine.

And I almost cried every day in the first half journey.And the most impressive moment, was the day before the last day.I still remember that day, our mission was to across a canyon just through a rope hanging between two cliffs.You can see from the picture, but you can't see the width it's very long.And, the, standard posture is leaning your whole body on to the rope.And use one of your legs backside to hookup the rope with the ankle.I'm pull yourself from side to the other.

When it was my turn, BEAR said,Cecilia, are you really sure you want to try that?If you want to quit you can quit now because I know you can't make balance.You can't use your left arm.Because I was not lucky before that mission, about two days ago.

I hurt my left arm, my nerves system got injured.And my little finger kept shaking for a whole day, I can't even control that.I barely can not use my left arm.So as a pessimist I have to imagine the worst consequence.Because, it was a reality show.You know, reality show is very dangerous if you can't perform 100% well.Sometimes it means you will face savage criticism on line later.And I might fall down again, or I hurt my right arm as well.

So I have been thinking about, should I really have to try that?I think at least I won't die.So what?I decided to take that mission.But I really lean my body onto that rope.It was far more, scary than I thought.You can see from the picture because my posture as My team member said my posture was so ugly.Because she said I was just like dead caterpillar hanging there.

I just kept my half body on one side, I left the rest part on the other side.And it was not the worst one.The worst was because my arm could not hold my upper body and my head.So I could not face up I could not see the end.

So what could I do?I know that I have to think positive, I also know that sometimes been positive doesn't mean you just speak out some propagandas.You have to do something for real.But at that moment, the only thing I could see was a rock just three meters ahead nothing else.

So I decided to set small targets, so I focus on that rock.There is something magical happens, when I really concentrated to that rock.I forgot about the height, I forgot about keeping balance.I even forget about the end.I just remembered to focus on that, and pull myself.

Then I started seeking more tigers in front of me.And any tiny objects, became, glittering image in front of me.After child several times, I realized that I was so close to the end.And finally, I succeed.

So after that experience, I learned there is no shame to be a loser.You just need to set small targets, and devote yourself. So these stories which happened to me, shaped me either positive pessimist.

And until today I know that I am still a bad piano player,a bad painter.And not a very successful producer.But I love to be a positive pessimist.And I know nothing can stop me being better.

Thank you.

其實(shí)，如韓雪演講中所說(shuō)吧史，

“不要去害怕接受巨大的挑戰(zhàn)邮辽，

你可以做好失敗的心理準(zhǔn)備，但是靠毅力去征服它贸营《质觯”

無(wú)論是在和貝爾冒險(xiǎn)的過(guò)程中，還是在擔(dān)任首部4K輸出的電視劇制作人中钞脂，她也是在看待事情時(shí)揣云，先去考慮，最壞的結(jié)果是什么冰啃，然后邓夕，不顧一切，去嘗試和努力阎毅。

韓雪表示自己進(jìn)行非母語(yǔ)演講也是如此焚刚，

準(zhǔn)備的時(shí)候很緊張，但是做好了各種出洋相的準(zhǔn)備并全力以赴净薛。

確實(shí)汪榔，最后韓雪呈現(xiàn)給觀眾們的效果很出眾。

也許，你也可以嘗試這種方法痴腌，來(lái)思考人生雌团。