讓我們總結(jié)一下20歲的你應(yīng)該做的三件事吧是偷！
1. Get some identity capital. 自我增值
Do something that adds value to who you are.
做一些會(huì)使你增值的事。
Do something that's an investment in who you might want to be next.
為成為你想變成的那個(gè)人花沉，做一些投資琐鲁。
So now is the time for that cross-country job, that internship, that startup you want to try.
現(xiàn)在正是時(shí)候韩玩，做你想嘗試的那些跨國(guó)工作剥槐，實(shí)習(xí)等等慨灭。
2. Use you weak ties. 利用你的弱人脈
Twentysomethings who huddle together withlike-minded peers limit who they know, what they know, how they think, how they speak, and where they work.
20多歲的你疚鲤，經(jīng)常只和想法相同的同齡人交往，但這其實(shí)會(huì)限制你的交際圈缘挑，限制你所知、所想桶略、限制你的眼界语淘。
That new piece of capital, that new person to date almost always comes from outside the inner circle. New things come from what are called our weak ties, our friends of friends of friends.
其實(shí)，很多消息和機(jī)會(huì)通常來(lái)自你的圈子外际歼，去認(rèn)識(shí)一下你的鄰居惶翻、朋友的朋友的朋友吧，這會(huì)帶給你更多的資源鹅心，也會(huì)帶給你更廣闊的視野吕粗。
Half of new jobs are never posted, so reaching out to your neighbor's boss is how you get that unposted job.
有一半的新工作都是沒(méi)有被發(fā)布的，所以接近你鄰居的老板旭愧，恰恰是你得到那份沒(méi)有被發(fā)布的工作的途徑颅筋。
It's not cheating. It's the science of how information spreads.
這并不是開(kāi)玩笑。信息傳播的科學(xué)就是如此输枯。
3. Pick your family. 選擇你的家人
Dating in my 20s was like musical chairs. Everybody was running around and having fun, but then sometime around 30 it was like the music turned off and everybody started sitting down.
20多歲的時(shí)候談戀愛(ài)就像玩搶椅子议泵，每個(gè)人都東奔西跑地玩樂(lè)，但是在30左右時(shí)音樂(lè)停止了先口，每個(gè)人都開(kāi)始坐下。
The best time to work on your marriage is before you have one, and that means being as intentional with love as you are with work.
為你的婚姻所努力的最好時(shí)候螟深，是在你擁有婚姻以前谐宙。享受戀愛(ài)，但選擇你未來(lái)的家人血崭，一定要像選工作一樣積極而謹(jǐn)慎卧惜。
Picking your family is about consciously choosing who and what you want rather than just making it work or killing time with whoever happens to be choosing you.
選擇你的家庭厘灼，意味著有意識(shí)地選擇你想要的，而不是和那個(gè)碰巧也選擇了你的人消磨時(shí)間咽瓷。
So...
30 is not the new 20
30歲不是新的20歲
Get some identity capital
為自我增值
Use your weak ties
運(yùn)用你的弱人脈
Pick your family
選擇你的家人
Don't be defined by what you DIDN'T know or DIDN'T do.
不要被你未知或未做的事情所定義设凹。
YOU're deciding your life RIGHT NOW.
此時(shí)此刻，你正在決定著自己的生活茅姜。
