32 February 8
There are three mistakes we often make in our daily life.
1.spending time on something that has nothing to do with ourselves
Have you ever caught yourself reading the gossips about certain? actors or news about foreign countries?such as Wang Baoqiang,Zhao Wei and so on.You kill your time by doing something useless and explain to yourself that I I keep a watchful eye on social issues and state affairs.
2.doing what others are doing.
Whether you have gotten it or not,it's the truth.If you see? that your friends doesn't get up until lunch time,then you will tend to stay in bed continually,and convince yourself that it's reasonable.
In psychology,doing what others are doing? without consideration is described as Conformity,which we learnt from our ancestors.In a circle,we tend to do things that are familiar to? what other people do? of our own social class,which makes us avoid being punished and be gregarious.
3.being concerned over others'business too much.
Having you? ever been busy with browsering the Qzone in QQ or Moments in Wechat,where you can get to know what have happened to your friends and what your friends feel.If your answer is yes, that is you.
