????? 這是抄自一段英文的演講,為什么要記錄下這段話瓦哎,因為前面說了至今我都沒啥出息漓藕。也許是給現(xiàn)在的自己一點安慰亦或者一點激勵與信心陶珠。讓我不會對生活失去信心,不會對未來充滿絕望享钞。也許真的如下文所說我的時間點還沒到吧揍诽。(其實后期我又讀到過一篇文章說:牛逼的人早就開始牛逼了)兩文相沖,心中只有一句MMP栗竖,但我還是希望給與大眾的多是激勵與希望暑脆。
校長:
??????? 好了,請大家往前看狐肢。早上好添吗,十一年級的同學(xué)們。早上好份名。今天是關(guān)于你們新的征程和余生開始的集會碟联。兩年時間你們會完成你們的畢業(yè)考試。三年時間你們會穿行世界各地學(xué)習(xí)僵腺,在你們選擇的大學(xué)里學(xué)習(xí)鲤孵。五年時間你們會開始職業(yè)生涯。這個房間中的大多數(shù)人會為全球頂尖機構(gòu)工作辰如。你們會結(jié)婚普监,然后可能買套房.十年時間你們的生活就會穩(wěn)定。十五年時間你們的人生道路就有了定數(shù)琉兜。
??????? 不好意思鹰椒,校長,讓我來告訴為什么你思考方式是失敗的呕童。
?????? 我知道有的人21歲畢業(yè)了直到27歲才開始工作。我知道有的人25歲畢業(yè)就找到了工作淆珊。我知道有的人沒有上大學(xué)卻在18歲找到了他們喜愛的夺饲。我知道有的人剛畢業(yè)就找到了薪水不錯的工作,但不是他們喜愛的施符。我知道有的人利用空檔年找到了自己的目標往声。我知道有的人16歲就知道他們要干什么,卻在26歲改變了他們的想法戳吝。我知道有的人有了孩子卻依然單身浩销,有些人結(jié)了婚卻要等8到10年才要孩子。我知道一些戀愛中的人愛著別人听哭。我知道有的相愛的人卻不能在一起慢洋。
??????? 因此我的觀點是所有生活中的事情都是根據(jù)我們的時間而發(fā)生的塘雳。
??????? 你可能看到你的一些朋友領(lǐng)先于你,或落后于你普筹,但所有事情的發(fā)生都有他們自己的節(jié)奏败明,有他們自己的時間點。要有耐心太防。
?????? 馬克庫班25歲還在酒吧當服務(wù)員妻顶。羅琳.J.K在被出版社拒絕了12次后直到32歲才發(fā)行哈利波特。奧爾特加39歲時創(chuàng)辦了ZARA 蜒车。杰克馬35歲才創(chuàng)立阿里巴巴讳嘱。摩根弗里曼52歲才遇到大的突破。史蒂夫·卡瑞爾在40歲之后才有了重大突破 酿愧。維珍是由34歲的理查德·布蘭森創(chuàng)辦的沥潭。
??????? 25歲后得到學(xué)位仍然是一個成就。30歲之后結(jié)婚但是幸福美好寓娩。35歲之后建立家庭叛氨,40歲買房仍然偉大。不要讓其他人的時間線來催促你棘伴。正如愛因斯坦說的:“不是所有重要的事情都能被計算寞埠,也不是所有被計算的東西都真正的重要『缚洌”
??????? 這才是最重要的事仁连,我希望你們能夠為自己創(chuàng)造有意義的、有目標的阱穗、充實的生活饭冬,并學(xué)會如何利用這些來影響和改變他人的生活。那才是真正的成功揪阶。
Headmaster: Alright, everyone looking forward please.Good morning ,year elevens .Good morning.Today's assembly is about the start of journey,the start of the rest of your lives.In two years time all of you will be finishing your A levels.In three years time you'll be studying across the world ,studying at the university of your choice.In five years time you'll have started your careers.Many of you will be in this room working for the top institutions across the globe.You will then get married ,you then may buy a house.In ten years time your life will be set for you .In fifteen years you'll be thirty and from then on your path,your life will be set. Another one: I'm sorry Mr. Headmaster ,let me tell you why that approach may fail you. I know people who graduated at 21 and din't get job until they were 27.I know people who graduated late at 25 and they found work immediately.I know people who never went to university,but found what they love at 18.I know people who found a job straight out of college making decent money,but hate what they do.I know people who took gap years and found their purpose.I know people who were so sure about what they were going to do at 16,they change their mind at 26.I know people who have children but are single and i know people who are married but had to wait 8 to 10 years to have children.I know people in relationships who love someone else.I know people who love each other but aren't together. So my point is everything in life happens according to our time ,our clock. You may look at some of your friends and think that they are ahead of you ,maybe some of them you feel are behind,but everything happens at their own pace.They have their own time and clock and so do you .Be patient At age 25 Mark Cuban was a bartender in Dallas. It took till 32 for J.K.Rowling to be published for Harry Potter after being rejected by 12 publishers.Ortega launched ZARA when he was 39. Jack Ma started Alibaba when 35 .Morgan Freeman got his big break at 52. Steve Carell only got his big break after 40 years old . Virgin was started by Richard Branson at 34. Getting your degree after 25 is still an achievement. Not being married at 30 but still happy is beautiful .Starting a family after 35 is still possible and buying a house after 40 is still great .Dn't let anyone rush you with their time lines.Because as Einstein said:"Not everything that counts can be counted and not evrything that's counted truly counts". And this is the most important thing ,I want you to be able to create meaningful ,purposeful昌抠, fulfilling lives for yourselves and learn how to use that to make an impact and a difference in the lives of others.That will be true success.