讓人舒服是人與人相處的最佳境界，不管是朋友之間谐区，還是親人之間湖蜕。厲害的人比較懂得和人相處，化問題于無形宋列，不動聲色就處理完了事情昭抒，不會給別人造成傷害，也不會讓周圍的人感覺不舒服。
Feeling comfortable is the best way to get along with people,no matter friends,or families.Better men know how to get along with people,they solve the problem and deal with things quietly,will not cause harm to others,they will not let people around them feel uncomfortable.
1保持舒適度
有個朋友是心直口快的人灭返，每次都掏心掏肺的和閨蜜講她的一些經(jīng)歷盗迟，什么都愿意和閨蜜講，有一次一個朋友和她聊天熙含，聊著聊著以后就不想搭理她了罚缕，因為聊天涉及太多私人隱私，有些內(nèi)容不方便說的怎静，她也想探個究竟邮弹，人家如果不告訴她，她就覺得別人不夠真誠蚓聘，不夠信任腌乡，有所隱瞞，不把她當朋友或粮，結(jié)果就鬧得不愉快导饲。
There is a friend who is straightforward and fast in speaking,every time she is opening heart and talking about her experience with friends in everything,once her friend ignored her,because the conversation involved too much privacy,some were not convenient to say,she still tried to explore what really happened,if did not tell her, she will feel others not sincere enough to her,not trust in her,must have something to hide from her,and not treat her as real friend,at the end people get unhappy.
保持舒適度是人與人間交往基本的尊重捞高，如果沒有安全感氯材，別人會覺得被侵犯，然后推開你硝岗，讓雙方都覺得尷尬氢哮，甚至發(fā)生沖突。即使是親密關(guān)系型檀，也有一些需要維護的細節(jié)冗尤，比如不可對外宣揚對方隱私和缺點等，有時候要照顧對方的感受胀溺。
Maintain comfort feeling is the basic way to respect people in relationship,If people are in no sense of security,they will feel a creepy invasion and push you away,both sides will feel embarrassed,or even have conflicts.Even for intimate relationship,you need to preserve some details,such as not to show privacy and shortcomings to others, and take care of each other's feelings.
2保持舒適距離
每個人都想要一個獨立的空間不被太多的打擾裂七，如果你超過了這個距離就冒犯了別人，讓別人感覺不舒服仓坞。
Everyone wants an independent space without being disturbed,if you cross the distance will offend other people,and make others feel uncomfortable.
親戚的小朋友暑假放假回家背零，個個十分可愛，不禁想要靠近捏捏小臉蛋无埃，有一次他們在認真做作業(yè)徙瓶，有幾個問題不明白就請教了我，我給他們一些思路嫉称，然后他們就自己做了侦镇，三番五次我都想去看看作業(yè)做得如何了，剛開始他們讓我看了织阅，到了第三四次被他們支開了壳繁，讓我不要看他們的作業(yè)，他們要自己做了，小朋友客氣的說闹炉，您去做自己的事情吧伍派，我自己來就行了。我說好吧剩胁，那你們自己完成就好诉植。
Relative's children went home for summer vacation,all children are very cute,i can not help squeezing their small faces,once they are doing homework,and asked me to help them for several questions,I gave them some ideas,then they did by their own,I wanted to go and see how it was going for their homework for sevral times,they let me check at first,but refused after the third or fourth time,they just wanted to do by themselves,and politly said,please go and do your own thing, we will do by ourselves.I said ok,so you finished by yourselves.
3說話讓人舒服
說話讓人舒服的程度決定你的人生高度，懂得說話的人讓你覺得談吐優(yōu)雅昵观，有品位晾腔，親和力強，輕松愉快啊犬。很多事情也就在言談之間辦成了灼擂。
The degree of comfortable in speaking determines the level of your life.The people who know how to speak make you feel elegant,taste,strong affinity,relax and happy.A lot of things are done during the conversation.
說話讓人舒服不會刻意挑刺，不會抱怨指責觉至，不會說一些不合適或不文明的語言剔应，而是注重溝通，用心交流语御，了解雙方的想法峻贮，達成一定的意見。
Comfortable in speaking,people will not be deliberately picky of things,will not complain,say something inappropriate or uncivilized,but focus on communication,intentions of exchange,and understanding ideas of both sides,to reach a certain point of view.
4辦事讓人舒服
有的人遇到問題不懂得處理应闯，搞得人盡皆知纤控。說得越多，出現(xiàn)的問題也越多碉纺。到最后沒有真正解決了問題船万。
Some people do not know how to solve problems when they encounter problems,and make everybody know.When they were talking more,more problems arised.In the end did not really solve problems.
而有些人遇到問題不聲不響地就解決后大家才知道的，看起來不好解決的問題在他那里解決了骨田，我們會感嘆這個人有多厲害耿导。不動聲色搞定難題，即使和別人求助也要善于思考态贤，尋找解決辦法舱呻，而不是制造更多的麻煩，這是辦事讓人舒服的程度抵卫。
Some people encounter problems and solved quietly before we know,the problems seems difficult but solved by him,we will praise how awesome of this guy.Even if you were asking others for help you have to keep thinking and looking for solutions,rather than creating more troubles,this is a comfortable way to solve problems.
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