人生如同打牌，拿到好牌不一定會(huì)贏，而拿到爛牌也不一定會(huì)輸。這其中的玄妙就在于我們?nèi)绾慰创种械呐莆蝗剩绾巫龀鲞x擇。
We all get dealt cards . Some of us get better cards than others . And while it's easy to get hung up on our cards ,and feel we got screwed over , the real game lies in the choices we make with those cards ,the risks we decide to take ,and the consequences we choose to live with .?
總是抱著“受害人的心理”方椎，總感覺受傷的為什么總是我聂抢，總感覺這世界待我不公，始終是在怨天尤人棠众，抱怨外部環(huán)境琳疏，抱怨別人傷害自己。只能讓自己越陷越深闸拿，看不到問題轿亮。不論境遇如何，承擔(dān)責(zé)任胸墙，意味著把精力放在自己可以把控的范圍我注。
整本書的精要就在于把F*ck要放對(duì)位置，放在自己的可控范圍內(nèi)迟隅，而不是放在不可控的外部事件上但骨。改變?cè)械目创龁栴}的角度励七，衡量自我的標(biāo)準(zhǔn)，這種轉(zhuǎn)變注定痛苦奔缠，Do or do not ,there is no "how" .?
These are neccessay ,though painful ,side effects of choosing to place your fucks elsewhere , in a place far more important and more worthy of your energies .?
