最近很長(zhǎng)一段時(shí)間鞋拟，我都在加班骂维，回到家還得想想怎么寫文，怎么和合伙人把公眾號(hào)做好贺纲，朋友約我逛街吃飯航闺，總是被我推辭。他們說(shuō)，要不是給我打電話潦刃，真以為我進(jìn)了什么傳銷組織侮措，成日昏天黑地的干活，還一副雞血滿滿乖杠，斗志昂揚(yáng)的樣子分扎。
I often work extra hours. After the hours, I go home and be busy with my writing and the way of making the Public Number on Wechat with my partners. One day, my friends asked me to go shopping but said "No". Later, I often said "No". My friends gave me a call and told me that I was misunderstood in MLM, working all the day with enough passion.
我知道，自己并沒(méi)有過(guò)人的智商胧洒，也沒(méi)有什么背景畏吓，想要做成一件事，總是得花上比別人更多的時(shí)間略荡，所以不能沒(méi)有雞血庵佣，沒(méi)有斗志，否則拿什么來(lái)逼著自己前行汛兜？
I really know my IQ is not higher, and my background is not better, I will always spend more time in getting what I want if I really succeed in doing it. So, if no passion ,no will, what will force me to go forward?
有個(gè)姐姐總是勸我巴粪，你還年輕，是玩耍的大好時(shí)候粥谬，何必忙成這個(gè)樣子肛根？
One of my sisiters asked me why not enjoy myself at a young age. Why make yourself so busy?
其實(shí)，誰(shuí)不想愉快的談個(gè)戀愛漏策，或者嫁個(gè)有錢人少奮斗幾十年派哲。只是我知道，所有的幸福都是建立在你有實(shí)力的基礎(chǔ)之上的掺喻。比起灰姑娘的故事芭届，我更愿意相信，旗鼓相當(dāng)與勢(shì)均力敵感耙。當(dāng)你自身具備閃耀的光芒時(shí)褂乍，自會(huì)被人望見，也自會(huì)有同樣閃光的人即硼，與你攜手并肩逃片。
Actually, who would not like to fall in love with Mr Right or Mrs Right or get married with him or her? But I know happiness is based on what you really have. I would rather believe we are well-matched than envy every Cinderell's story. When you glitter like gold, the one who also glitter like gold will go hand in hand with you.
對(duì)于她說(shuō)的，我總是笑笑只酥。我不敢告訴她褥实，自己還準(zhǔn)備考研究生。每周五下班裂允，我火急火燎的趕場(chǎng)上課损离，一直到晚上十點(diǎn)，而周末也是全天滿課绝编，比起幾年前讀大學(xué)的時(shí)候草冈，我更忙了，但是收獲也更多了瓮增。
When she says that , I always give her a smile. I never tell her I am preparing fot put graduate exams. Every Fridays, I am in a hurry to take lessons after work until 10 p.m while my weekends is full of lessons too. I am busier but get more than before.
我自己清楚怎棱， 時(shí)光會(huì)一點(diǎn)一點(diǎn)從指尖溜走。有一天绷跑，我們可能不再年輕拳恋，但是我希望那時(shí)的自己，能活的更加從容淡定砸捏，有足夠的能力應(yīng)對(duì)生活里的波瀾谬运，有成熟的思維，厚實(shí)的荷包垦藏，給自己與所愛的人幸福梆暖。所以，我不敢太閑掂骏，也不愿太閑轰驳。
Time to rush folwing and flow away quietly. In the future, we will not be young any longer but I hope I will live unhurriedly,have enough capacities to deal with the problems of my life, enough money and thoughts to bring happiness to myself and the ones who I love. So, I have no courage to be free and I do not want to be free now.
認(rèn)識(shí)一個(gè)剛畢業(yè)沒(méi)多久的學(xué)妹，常常發(fā)微信問(wèn)我弟灼，人生很迷茫很無(wú)措级解，逢考必?cái)。ぷ饕膊豁樞奶锇螅兆舆^(guò)得好讓人心累絕望勤哗，怎么辦？
我問(wèn)她掩驱，“那你有做些什么來(lái)改變嗎芒划？”
她說(shuō) ：“我就是不知道該做些什么，所以才苦惱欧穴？”
Someone who is a recent graduate, she always chatted with me on Wechat about how to do in confusion. She never passed the exams she used to registered for and never found a good job. She asked me what she should do when life is filled with dispair.
And I also asked her one question "What changes have you made?"
she said,"I just don't know what changes I should do, so I am in trouble."
我有些無(wú)語(yǔ)了民逼，但不好意思的直接戳穿。她這哪里是迷茫疤伞缴挖！只不過(guò)是太閑了，想的太多做的太少焚辅，才有時(shí)間感嘆那些無(wú)謂的煩惱映屋。倘若是把那些精力花在努力改變現(xiàn)狀，努力提升自己上同蜻，那又怎么會(huì)迷茫呢棚点？
I was a bit speechless and never told her the following words:
she was not in confusion but felt too bored to do more instead of thinking mire. If it takes her more time to change her current situation to improve herself, how can she make herself in confusion?
后來(lái)，我們又聊到了一些事情湾蔓，才知道瘫析，她平時(shí)郁悶的時(shí)候，就去看韓劇，耗費(fèi)了大量的時(shí)間贬循。等追劇結(jié)束后咸包，才猛然意識(shí)到自己浪費(fèi)了光陰，心情更加低落杖虾，自能再找下一部劇烂瘫，周而復(fù)始。
Later, we chatted about something boring in life and I knew she used to waste too much time to see South Korean TV soaps when she felt bored. After that,she ?suddenly realized she wasted her time and felt more bored, and the only way she can think about was to see the next one. Again and again.
我給了她一個(gè)建議奇适，不妨寫寫影評(píng)什么的坟比。她果真堅(jiān)持去做了，都快一年了嚷往。開始的時(shí)候葛账，她常常發(fā)文給我看，漸漸地皮仁，她發(fā)的次數(shù)也少了籍琳，因?yàn)樵絹?lái)越忙。現(xiàn)在她變成了一個(gè)作家魂贬，更讓人意外的是巩割，她竟然跑去劇組，兼職做起編劇助理付燥。
One suggestion I gave her was to write comments on films or TV plays. she had gone on ?for about one year and often sent her comments to me. Gradually, she sent fewer and fewer because she became busier and busier. Now, she is a writer and to my surprise,she get a part-time job as a television writers' ?assisdant when she is crazy about joining the theater group.
她告訴我現(xiàn)在每天都要做很多事情宣谈，雖然是累了點(diǎn)，但是過(guò)的卻很充實(shí)键科。當(dāng)生活忙碌 起來(lái)闻丑，根本沒(méi)有時(shí)間無(wú)病呻吟，胡思亂想勋颖，更沒(méi)有時(shí)間迷茫嗦嗡，當(dāng)所有的精力都放在努力與奮斗上時(shí)，人生開始變得有意義饭玲，而一個(gè)個(gè)的成功也會(huì)紛至而來(lái)侥祭。
She says to me, "Now there are too many things I want to do every day, I am very happy although I am very tired ." ?If your life is busy, you'll have no time to complain , think more and fall in confusion. When all the effort is put into progress, life is becoming more and more meaningful and success is coming fast.
很多人都問(wèn)過(guò)我，怎樣才不算是過(guò)的太閑茄厘？
Many people asked me this question "How to define 'too free' "
每個(gè)人對(duì)生活的期望都不同矮冬，但是當(dāng)晚上躺在床上，能細(xì)細(xì)數(shù)出這一整天做了什么次哈，并且不會(huì)因?yàn)闆](méi)把握好時(shí)光而不安和自責(zé)胎署，不會(huì)因?yàn)樽约汉翢o(wú)成就而對(duì)未來(lái)彷徨，那么這一天對(duì)你來(lái)水就沒(méi)有虛度窑滞。
Different people ?have different hopes.However, when you lie in bed ,you can count what you did the whole day and didn't have any worries and self-accusation because of wasting time,didn't be worried about your future because of no achievement. The day is no waste for you.
當(dāng)清晨醒來(lái)的時(shí)候琼牧，腦中早已經(jīng)做了了一天的計(jì)劃恢筝，并愿意為之調(diào)動(dòng)所有的熱情，昂揚(yáng)斗志的完成所有巨坊。你愿意相信撬槽，只要自己堅(jiān)持下去，就能日游所進(jìn)抱究，那么恢氯，這一天對(duì)你來(lái)說(shuō)就是有意義的。
Every morning, when you wake up, plans of the whole day has been in your mind and you will be willing to devote your all passion to finishing them. You will be willing to believe I will make progress every day if I keep doing. The day is meaningful for you.
我們現(xiàn)在才二三十歲鼓寺，對(duì)于整個(gè)人生而言，僅是個(gè)開端勋磕。一切皆有可能妈候，我們不必迷茫，不必太早享受安逸挂滓，而該去做自己想做的事情苦银，去過(guò)自己想要的生活。
Now, we are at a young age, it is just the beginning if our lives. Nothing is impossible. Not necessary to make us in confusion and to enjoy early at ease. What we should do is to do what we want and to live the life we want whatever comes in life.
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