“選擇不重要宣蠕，關(guān)鍵是選擇以后怎么做例隆，那個(gè)process才是重要的∏朗矗”
支配命運(yùn)或被命運(yùn)支配镀层，選擇命運(yùn)或被命運(yùn)選擇。原來這都不重要皿曲。
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“你焦慮唱逢，因?yàn)槟闾胁帕恕保F(xiàn)代人的焦（jiao）慮（qing）大多來自于選擇太多屋休。
試想那些還在種地的農(nóng)民坞古，那些建筑工地上的工人，富士康流水線上的人們劫樟，哪有那么多無(wú)病的呻吟痪枫。因?yàn)槌伺ι嫦氯ブ茫€有什么選項(xiàng)。
在工作中獲取的經(jīng)驗(yàn)告訴我奶陈，那些長(zhǎng)期解決不好易阳、給老板員工和用戶都帶來持久壓力的項(xiàng)目，問題通常出在源頭上吃粒。例如游戲規(guī)則的不合理潦俺，例如問題定義的模糊。
我持久的焦慮声搁，來自于其實(shí)我對(duì)自己想要什么的定義是模糊的黑竞，我又不愿意按照別人set好的路徑去走，而面對(duì)的選擇又太多疏旨。恰好我還很幸運(yùn)很魂，尚存選擇的權(quán)利。
最近意識(shí)到檐涝，人真是越聲稱著什么遏匆，越是缺乏什么。我的一次次主動(dòng)地選擇谁榜，都仿佛在提醒著我自己和看得到我的人幅聘，“她就是想成為一名產(chǎn)品設(shè)計(jì)師”。但當(dāng)真正面對(duì)這一職業(yè)的時(shí)候窃植，我猶豫了帝蒿，迷失了。于是開始反思巷怜。然后開始承認(rèn)葛超，這種所謂的“知道自己想要什么”只是給自己的保護(hù)傘，以一直麻痹內(nèi)心關(guān)于自我定位的不安延塑。and绣张，開始妥協(xié)，屢屢想起那句“要達(dá)到理想关带，先放下理想”侥涵。
畢淑敏：“人生是沒有任何意義的——人生的意義靠你自己去創(chuàng)造”。to make sense宋雏，就像在我所在的行業(yè)里面一樣芜飘，點(diǎn)子不值錢，落地了才值錢磨总，人生也是要去行走了才會(huì)make sense燃箭。所以不要留太多的時(shí)間，給迷茫舍败，給選擇。——因?yàn)橛腥艘言缃o出答案邻薯，這個(gè)答案就是：不用想了裙戏，就是花費(fèi)再多的焦慮，也不會(huì)有答案厕诡。至少在人類生命時(shí)間太短累榜，不足以給自己一個(gè)滿意的答案。
當(dāng)然不思考也是絕對(duì)行不通的灵嫌。而是壹罚，把大部分時(shí)間留給奔跑，小部分時(shí)間留給停下來思考寿羞。奔跑的時(shí)間太短沒有思考的養(yǎng)分猖凛，思考的時(shí)間太長(zhǎng)容易產(chǎn)生焦慮。
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猜火車的片頭：
“Choose life. Choose a job. Choose a career.Choose a family. Choose a big fucking television, choose washingmachines, cars, compact disk players and electrical tin openers…choose DIY and wondering who the fuck you are on a Sunday morning. Choose sitting on the couch, watching mind-numbing,spirit-crushing game shows, stuffing junk food into your mouth. Choose rotting away at the end of it all,pishing your last in a miserable home, nothing more than an embarassment to the selfish, fucked-up brats you spawned to replace yourself. Choose your future. Choose life. But why would I want to do a thing like that?”?
猜火車的片尾：
“So why did I do it? I could offer a million answers, all false.The truth is that I'm a bad person, but that's going to change,I'm going to change. This is the last of this sort of thing. I'm cleaning up and I'm moving on, going straight and choosing life. I'm looking forward to it already. I'm going to be just like you: the job, the family, the fucking big television, the washing machine, the car, the compact disc and electrical tin opener, good health, low cholesterol, dental insurance, mortgage, starter home, leisurewear, luggage, three-piece suite, DIY, game shows, junk food, children, walks in the park, nine to five, good at golf, washing the car, choice of sweaters, family Christmas, indexed pension, tax exemption, clearing the gutters, getting by, looking ahead, to the day you die.”
CHOOSE LIFE.
