在我們的生活中抬闷，每個(gè)人都是獨(dú)立的個(gè)體壶运，所以不管是意見(jiàn)還是看法都會(huì)有所分歧，但是你可以討厭某樣?xùn)|西厂抽，你也可以不喜歡某一個(gè)人需频，但是你必須要說(shuō)服自己允許這些的存在，學(xué)會(huì)尊重別人就是尊重自己筷凤。
In our life, everyone is an independent individual, so there will be differences in opinions and opinions, but you can hate something, you can also dislike someone, but you have to convince yourself to allow the existence of these, learn to respect others is to respect yourself.
不管是在學(xué)習(xí)生活中還是在工作中昭殉，你一定要知道那些夸獎(jiǎng)別人的話，你可以隨意的說(shuō)藐守，但是那些在背后詆毀別人的話你一定管好自己的嘴挪丢。
No matter in the study life or in the work, you must know that those praise others, you can say, but those behind the back of the slander others you must control their mouth.
其實(shí)現(xiàn)在的人對(duì)自私這個(gè)詞的理解，或許有一些偏差卢厂，就比如說(shuō)現(xiàn)在好多大齡未婚的青年總是被別人說(shuō)結(jié)婚不僅僅是你自己一個(gè)人的事情乾蓬，因此有些人甚至背上了自私的罪名。
In fact, nowadays people's understanding of the word "selfish" may have some deviation. For example, many older unmarried young people are always told that getting married is not just a matter for one's own, so some people even bear the charge of selfishness.
但是真的是這個(gè)樣子嗎慎恒？我想一個(gè)人按照自己喜歡的方式生活那根本就不能叫做自私巢块，而是那些希望你按照他們希望的方式去生活的人才叫自私。
But is this really the case? I think it's not selfish to live your life the way you want it, it's selfish to live your life the way they want you to live it.
年輕人一定要明白巧号，如果你喜歡一個(gè)人，那就用心的去喜歡姥闭，去表白丹鸿，但是你一定要知道你向一個(gè)人表白是向這個(gè)人表明你喜歡她的心意，而并不是向她索取你期望的關(guān)系棚品。
Young people must understand that if you like someone, you should love and express your love with your heart, but you must know that when you express your love to a person, you are showing your love to her, not asking for the relationship you expect.
其實(shí)現(xiàn)在我們很多人犯的最大的一個(gè)錯(cuò)誤就是習(xí)慣性地以貌取人靠欢，可是一個(gè)人的長(zhǎng)相跟一個(gè)人的教養(yǎng)真的不存在任何的關(guān)系不是嗎？
In fact, one of the biggest mistakes that many of us make now is to judge people by their appearance habitually. However, one's appearance has nothing to do with one's upbringing, does it?
不管遇到什么事情铜跑，你的第一反應(yīng)都應(yīng)該是想解決辦法门怪，而不是一味地去抱怨，其實(shí)說(shuō)白了锅纺，抱怨的目的無(wú)非就是逃避責(zé)任以及懦弱無(wú)能的表現(xiàn)掷空，而且抱怨根本就不能解決問(wèn)題，反而會(huì)讓我們變得更加的焦慮。
No matter what happens, your first reaction should be to try to find a solution instead of complaining. In fact, to put it bluntly, the purpose of complaining is to evade responsibility and show cowardice. Moreover, complaining can't solve the problem at all, but will make us more anxious.
