奧斯卡獎出爐了！小眾同志電影《請以你的名字呼喚我》獲得了最佳改編劇本獎妨马。在麥子的強(qiáng)烈推薦下看了這部電影挺举。前面部分印象不太深刻。但在電影的最后烘跺，當(dāng)父親發(fā)現(xiàn)自己的兒子是同性戀湘纵，而且又失戀了，他說了一段安慰自己兒子的話滤淳。被這段話震撼到了梧喷。這段話感人至深，又引人深思脖咐，言辭懇切铺敌，兼具安慰，教育和引導(dǎo)作用屁擅。最好的教育是給你引導(dǎo)偿凭，讓你自己去體會和領(lǐng)悟。
You two has a nice friendship. You’re too smart not to know how rare, how special what you two had was. He was good. You were both lucky to have found each other because you too are good. When you least expect it, nature has cunning ways of finding our weakest spot. Just remember I’m here. Right now you may not want to feel anything. Maybe you never want to feel anything. And maybe it’s not me you want to speak about these things but feel something you obviously did. Look, you had a beautiful friendship, maybe more than a friendship. And I envy you. In my place, most parents would hope the whole thing goes away. Pray their sons land on their feet, but I am not such a parent. We rip out so much of ourselves to be cured of things faster that we go bankrupt by the age of 30, and have less to offer each time we start with someone new. But to make yourself feel nothing, so as not to feel anything. What a waste! I may have come close, but I never had what you two have. Something always held me back, or stood in the way. How you live your life is your business. Just remember. Our hearts and our bodies are given to us only once, and before you know it, your heart’s worn out. And as for your body, there comes a point where no one looks at it. Much less wants to come near it. Right now, there’s sorrow, pain. Don’t kill it. And with it, the joy you felt.
(英文臺詞太美派歌，試著自己重新翻譯了一遍弯囊。水平有限，不足之處胶果，請多指正匾嘱。)
你們兩人之間有一段非常棒的友誼。你這么聰明早抠，不可能不知道你們之間的友誼非常特別而罕見霎烙。你和他都是很優(yōu)秀的人，你們能夠找到彼此應(yīng)該感到幸運(yùn)。上天總有辦法在你猝不及防的時候擊中你的弱點(diǎn)悬垃，讓你傷心游昼。但別怕，爸在你身邊盗忱！現(xiàn)在你可能不想去讓自己有什么感受酱床，或者你從來都不希望有任何感受。你可能也不愿向我說這些事情趟佃，但體會你現(xiàn)在的這種傷悲的感覺。
你們兩個之間的這段美好情誼超過了友誼昧捷。我很羨慕你闲昭。站在我的立場上，可能大多數(shù)父母都希望整個事情快點(diǎn)結(jié)束靡挥，希望他們的兒子平安無事序矩，忘掉這種悲傷。但我不是這樣的父母跋破。為了療傷簸淀，我們會從自己身上剝奪太多的感情。以至于我們到30歲的時候毒返，我們的感情就已經(jīng)用完了租幕。從那以后，每開始一段新的戀愛拧簸，我們能投入的感情就越來越少劲绪。為了讓自己不受傷，而放棄掉體驗(yàn)感情的機(jī)會盆赤，這是對人生的浪費(fèi)凹指弧！
我也曾想擁有你們之間的那種感情牺六，但是我跨不住那一步颤枪，總有些東西總是阻擋在我面前。你如何過你的一生是你自己的事淑际。但一定要記住畏纲，我們只有一顆心，一個身體庸追。你的心通常在不知不覺中就已疲憊不堪霍骄。至于你的身體，總會有那么一天淡溯，沒有人愿意多看它一眼读整，更別說靠近你的身體了。現(xiàn)在咱娶，你心里有悲傷米间，有痛苦强品。不要摒棄掉你的悲傷痛苦，感受它們屈糊，同時也去感受快樂的榛。
