傲慢與偏見如何阻礙你前進(jìn)影響你未來

小時(shí)候特別喜歡看的電影就是簡(jiǎn).奧斯丁的《傲慢與偏見》,反復(fù)看了好多遍至今還是很喜歡,因?yàn)樗胺Q經(jīng)典中的經(jīng)典绷杜。喜歡歐式的田園風(fēng)格直秆,喜歡純正的英倫口音濒募,喜歡古典的高雅淳樸。有一些橋段現(xiàn)在仍然記憶猶新圾结,電影中的Mr.達(dá)西先生也因此成為很多人白馬王子化身瑰剃。

When i was a child i was particularly fond of watching the movie Jane. Austin's "Pride and Prejudice",now i still like it very much even already read it many times,it is called one of the most classic works.I like its European farmhouse style,like its pure British accent,like its classic elegance.Some episode are still fresh in memory,Mr.Darcy in the film also became charming prince for lots of people.

1 現(xiàn)實(shí)生活中存在傲慢與偏見,有可能嚴(yán)重影響到我們的生活筝野,不僅阻礙了我們清醒的認(rèn)知晌姚,還阻礙了我們的成長(zhǎng)進(jìn)步。

There is arrogance and prejudice in real life that can seriously affect our lives,not only hinder our awareness,but also hinder our growth and progress.

現(xiàn)實(shí)中的我們有傲慢與偏見歇竟,不僅僅在愛情里挥唠,也體現(xiàn)在生活的方方面面。

We have arrogance and prejudice in reality,not only in love,but also in all aspects of life.

《傲慢與偏見》里伊麗莎白初次見達(dá)西認(rèn)為對(duì)方是傲慢的焕议,達(dá)西也認(rèn)為伊麗莎白的家庭沒有教養(yǎng)宝磨,兩人有了誤會(huì)和偏見。達(dá)西第一次求婚時(shí),伊麗莎白說了很多傷人的話狠狠拒絕了他唤锉。直到后來慢慢認(rèn)識(shí)到達(dá)西的高尚品格世囊,開始尊敬他了,一直以來都是自己錯(cuò)怪他了窿祥。誤會(huì)和偏見才慢慢消融株憾,兩人相愛而結(jié)婚。

At "Pride and Prejudice"when Elizabeth first saw Darcy she judged him to be arrogant,while Darcy believed that Elizabeth's family is not good in behavior,they had misunderstanding and prejudice for each other.When Darcy proposed first time to Elizabeth,Elizabeth severely refused him and said a lot of wounding words.Until later she slowly realized the noble character of Darcy,and began to respect him,she had been misunderstanding and prejudice of him,the two cleared the misunderstanding and loved each other then got married.

因?yàn)榘谅覀兙芙^了很多錯(cuò)過了很多晒衩,因?yàn)槠娢覀冋`會(huì)了很多嗤瞎,看錯(cuò)了很多,影響了我們的判斷听系。

Because of arrogance we refused a lot of things and miss a lot of opportunities,we misunderstood a lot,got wrongs a lot,it was affecting our judgments.

現(xiàn)實(shí)中也是這樣猫胁,一個(gè)朋友親戚給她介紹了一個(gè)男朋友,第一次約見面的經(jīng)歷不是很愉快跛锌。男生遲到了弃秆,那天下著雨還沒帶傘。

It is similar in reality,there is a friend her relative introduce her a boyfriend,the first meeting experience was not very happy.The boy was late,and did not take the umbrella but it was raining outside.

因?yàn)檫@次印象后朋友覺得男生不太好髓帽,盡管雙方其實(shí)都還算優(yōu)秀菠赚,最后還是不了了之。

Because of the impression my friend did not feel good about the boy,although they are both actually very good person,and finally there is no result.

“傲慢讓別人無法愛你郑藏,偏見讓你無法愛別人衡查。”

有很多類似的經(jīng)歷告訴我們有時(shí)候是被傲慢偏見蒙蔽了雙眼必盖,因而無法接近美好的事物拌牲。如果沒有放下評(píng)判,不懂從容接納歌粥,理解包容塌忽,多給一次機(jī)會(huì),就無法成就美好失驶。

"Pride makes others unable to love you,and prejudice makes you unable to love others."There are many similar experiences tell us that we are sometimes blinded by arrogance and can not get close to the good things.If you do not put down the judgement,do not understand and accept others,do not give understanding and tolerance,and give more of a chance,you can not reach good things.

2如果不是比較嚴(yán)重土居,觸及底線和違背原則的事我們還是可以接受的。像一些無關(guān)乎大事的小錯(cuò)誤嬉探,有時(shí)候不去計(jì)較擦耀,放寬心,多接納包容涩堤,反而是一個(gè)人大度的高尚品質(zhì)眷蜓,才能有好結(jié)果。

If it is not too serious things or hitting the bottom line and contrary to the basic principles we can still accept them.Like some small things that do not affect to reach big things,sometimes we do not need to care about them,take it easy,give more tolerance,on the contrary it reflects a person of noble character.And will have good result.

我們有個(gè)客戶要求我們的產(chǎn)品質(zhì)量都是高端一級(jí)的胎围。一次不小心我們做錯(cuò)了吁系,因?yàn)榻淮撕芏啻蔚囊粋€(gè)細(xì)節(jié)芹敌,我們還是沒有做好。

We have a customer require our product to be high quality. We did wrong one time carelessly, the details were told many times,but we still did not do well.

客戶生氣了垮抗,不希望有這種事情發(fā)生氏捞。我們很緊張,擔(dān)心他不和我們合作了冒版。

Our customer was angry and did not want this kind of thing happened.We are very nervous,worried that he did not want to cooperate with us.

盡管如此液茎,客戶居然和我們說,我給你們反映這個(gè)問題辞嗡,不是以后不給你們生產(chǎn)捆等,是要讓你們注意,你們還是可以繼續(xù)做续室,我只是讓你們知道正確的做法栋烤,下次不要出現(xiàn)這個(gè)問題就可以了。

However,our customer told that it did not mean i didn't want to give you order,i just told you this problem to let you pay attention,you can still continue to produce, I just let you know the correct way,and next time will be all right if they do not have this problem.

于是我們感慨挺狰,客戶的不拘小節(jié) 明郭。因?yàn)槲覀兇_實(shí)出現(xiàn)了錯(cuò)誤,然而客戶沒有計(jì)較丰泊,只是告訴我們下次要注意薯定。我們后來合作了好多年都很愉快,一直都沒有換過供應(yīng)商瞳购。

So we feel our customer was not punctilious.We did have a mistake,but our customer just told us to pay attention next time and did not trifle with us.So we have been working together for many years and are very happy,he did not change supplier all this time.

3可以說我們每個(gè)人或多或少的都存在傲慢與偏見话侄,不僅我們自己有偏見,也有其他人的偏見学赛,我們對(duì)待事情要有一個(gè)清醒的認(rèn)識(shí)年堆,避免受傲慢和偏見干擾。

It can be said that everyone of us have arrogance and prejudice more or less, not only prejudice of our own,but also prejudice from other people, we must have clear understanding of things to avoid arrogance and prejudice.

我們年輕一代的大學(xué)生來到城市里工作盏浇,根還沒扎穩(wěn)变丧,骨子里還受著農(nóng)村老一輩的思想影響,在世俗里存在著很多偏見缠捌,比如

我們現(xiàn)在雖然在男女平等的今天锄贷,仍然有重男輕女的偏見译蒂。比如前幾天發(fā)生的榆林孕婦跳樓事件曼月,也是因?yàn)橛廾恋恼J(rèn)為無痛分娩會(huì)影響孩子,傻乎乎堅(jiān)持順產(chǎn)柔昼,造成孕婦跳樓的慘狀哑芹。

Our young generation of college students came to work in the city, the root is not stable,in their bones they are affected by the older generation of rural thought,there are many prejudices in the secular, for example in the equality of men and women today,there are people still prefer boys to girls.Such as a few days ago the Yulin pregnant women jumping event, it was because the ignorance thoughtthat painless childbirth will affect the child, silly adhere to the natural childbirth,and caused the pregnant women jumping to death.

如果我們的觀點(diǎn)會(huì)造成不良后果,就不要堅(jiān)持自以為是捕透,如果我們想法不能讓自己進(jìn)步聪姿,那就要考慮這是不是因?yàn)槠姴晗簦绻覀兡骋环矫嬉恢弊霾缓茫窃谶@個(gè)領(lǐng)域末购,我們看事情的第一反應(yīng)破喻,很大可能就是偏見。

If our point of view will cause bad consequences, do not insist that yourself is right, if we can not make ourselves progress, it is necessary to consider if it is prejudice, if we have been doing in a certain field for a long time without result, then in this field,the first reaction we see things is likely to be prejudice.

4學(xué)習(xí)與偏見作斗爭(zhēng)盟榴,弱小和無知不是生存和發(fā)展的障礙曹质,傲慢與偏見才是。

Learning to fight with prejudice, weak and ignorance is not obstacle to survival and development, arrogance and prejudice is.

當(dāng)你看到有人勇于突破自己而取得難以想象的進(jìn)步擎场,你就會(huì)感嘆思想的偉大羽德。我們急需要認(rèn)識(shí)自己的觀點(diǎn)和想法,不斷的調(diào)整和更正迅办,使之適應(yīng)變化和發(fā)展的腳步宅静。

When you see someone daring to break through of their own and make unimaginable progress, you will shocked the greatness of thought. We need to know our own ideas, constantly adjust and correct them to adapt the changes and the pace of development.

要勇于站在時(shí)代前沿和跟上大城市的發(fā)展潮流,吸收創(chuàng)新的思想站欺,取得前所未有的突破姨夹。只有正確的想法才能引領(lǐng)我們走向一個(gè)更廣闊的天空,獲得更多美好和未來矾策。

Stand at front of the times and keep up with the development trend of big cities, absorb the idea of innovation, make an unprecedented breakthrough. Only the right idea can lead us to a broader sky,and get more beautiful things and future.

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