Qiu's Rhetoric（81）
Ma Xiaoqiu:Help others,achieve yourself
我們幾乎都會看到這樣的一個現(xiàn)象，出生只有一百天左右的寶寶，在和同齡寶寶一起玩耍時都會相互爭奪玩具癌别，這一行為是不教而會的一種天性悔捶。
We almost always see the phenomenon that a baby born only about a hundred days or so will compete for toys when playing with a baby of the same age.This behavior is an instinct that is not taught.
所謂天性，其實就是人在生生世世的輪回中单芜，由善惡行為的因素所產(chǎn)生在當下的現(xiàn)象蜕该。比如有人天生擁有一副好嗓子，有人天生麗質洲鸠，有人天生擅長文堂淡，有人天生擅長數(shù)，這些都是我們在過去生中所修習的結果扒腕【畹恚總之，天地萬物都是因緣所致瘾腰。
The so-called instinct is actually the current phenomenon generated by the factors of the good and evil behaviors of the people in the reincarnations of their generations.For example,some people are born to have a good voice or beautiful appearance;some good at arts while others good at mathematics,all of which are cultivated results in our previous generations.In short,everything in heaven and earth is caused by karma.
但非常遺憾的是由于我們受塵垢的污染皆的，我們忘記了自己的本性，我們失去了認識自己的能力蹋盆。我們看自己就像站在一面布滿污垢的鏡子面前费薄，我們所看到的并不是自己的真實面目。我們被假象迷惑了栖雾，我們認為那個充滿污垢的鏡子里的人就是自己楞抡，于是我們對自己的認識產(chǎn)生了莫大的偏差，這種偏差導致我們在做人做事時顛倒夢想析藕，以假為真召廷，以真為假。
But unfortunately,because we are polluted by dirt,we have forgotten our own nature and we have lost our ability to know ourselves.We see ourselves as standing in front of a mirror full of dirt.What we see is not our true face.We are confused by illusions.We think that the person in the mirror full of dirt is myself,so we have a great deviation from our own understanding.This deviation leads us to reverse our dreams when we are doing things,false for true,true for false.
例如账胧，我們會把＂人不為己竞慢，天誅地滅＂這句話，理解為人都是自私的治泥，人如果不自私就不會去創(chuàng)造梗顺，于是就會遭天報。大錯特錯车摄！在此寺谤，我想舉例說明，講一個從小聽到大的故事：一個母親非常疼愛自己的兒子吮播，從小到大变屁，母親都不辭勞苦地滿足兒子所有的需求。后來意狠，兒子長大了粟关，需求也更大了，母親滿足不了环戈，兒子便開始以不正當?shù)氖侄悟_取財物闷板，最終因搶刧殺人而走上了一條不歸之路澎灸。在行刑槍決時硕糊，兒子要求再喝一口母親的奶俭正，于是兒子用堅硬的牙齒咬掉了母親的乳頭，這是兒子臨死前對母親溺愛的仇恨屠尊。這就是＂人不為己县遣，天誅地滅＂的真實寫照糜颠。
For example,we will interpret the phrase“Every man for himself,and the devil takes the hindmost.”that people are all selfish.If they are not selfish,they will not create,and will be punished by heaven.It is absolutely wrong!Here,I would like to give an example to tell a story that I heard from the young to the elder:A mother loves her son very much.From the baby to growing up,the mother has worked tirelessly to meet all her son’s needs.Later,when the son grew up,his demand was even greater.The mother could not satisfy,the son begins to illegally cheat and finally be sentenced to death for killing people in rubbery.At the time of the execution,the son asked for suckling his mother another milk the last time before being shot,but he bites off his mother’s nipple with his tough teeth.It was the hatred of the son towards the doting mother before his death.And it is also the true portrait of this phrase:“Every man for himself,and the devil takes the hindmost.”
發(fā)生這一事件的原因，在于我們認識的顛倒萧求，母親總以為滿足兒子的愿望就是愛其兴，母親這些行為既沒有為兒子著想，也沒有為自己著想夸政。母親根本就不懂得元旬，當壞事做到一定數(shù)量的時候，災難就會降臨守问。這還不是最可怕的法绵，更為可怕的是那個被槍決的兒子，到死都沒明白＂人不為己酪碘，天誅地滅＂的道理朋譬。而這位可憐的母親，在兒子臨死前咬掉自己乳頭之后兴垦，應該明白是自己害了兒子徙赢。
The reason for this incident is that our cognition is upside down for this case.The mother always thinks that the love is to satisfy her son’s desire.The mother’s behavior is neither for her son nor for her own sake.The Mother does not know at all that the disaster will come when the evil deeds are accumulated to certain number.This is not the most terrible.What is even more terrible is that the son who was shot down did not understand the words:“Every man for himself,and the devil takes the hindmost.”And the poor mother,after the son gnawed his nipple before his death,finally knows that she had hurt her son.
＂人不為己探越，天誅地滅＂狡赐，所有的利己都是建立在利他基礎之上的，正所謂＂圣人無私钦幔，而成其私＂枕屉，我們翻開歷史的記載，從古至今就沒有任何一個自私自利的人能成就一番大業(yè)鲤氢。實言：要想實現(xiàn)自己美好的夢想搀擂，先去成就別人，方可成就自己卷玉。
“Every man for himself,and the devil takes the hindmost.”All self interests are all based on benefiting others.It is so called“A saint is selfless,but accomplish his private desires.”We open the record of history.No selfish people could accomplish great success from the ancient time on.To be honest:if you want to realize your own dream,firstly you make others successful and then you may unexpectedly find your demands met.
2018年8月2日馬小秋分享
Ma Xiaoqiu shared on August 2,2018
