Just to be responsible for yourself

只需對自己負責(zé)!

why are we afraid and sometimes even resent taking responsibility for ourselves

為什么我們害怕對自己負責(zé)态兴？有時甚至惱恨要對自己負責(zé)凫海？

it is because from your very childhood方仿，you have been taught not to be responsible

這是因為你從很小時般卑，就被教不要去負責(zé)

you have been taught to depend

你被教導(dǎo)要依賴

you have been taught to be responsible to your father to your mother

to your family to your motherlands

to all kinds of nonsense

你被教導(dǎo)對你的父親，母親旦袋，你的家庭衙四，你的祖國負責(zé)，對各種胡說八道負責(zé)

But you have not been told that you have to be responsible for yourself that there is nobody

who is going to take your responsibility

但卻沒有被告知：你要對自己負責(zé)为朋，而且沒有人能對你負責(zé)臂拓。

No，on the contrary习寸，your parents were taking your responsibility, your family was taking your responsibility, the priest was taking your responsibility for your spiritual growth

相反（你被告知）胶惰，你父母在對你負責(zé)，你的家庭在對你負責(zé)霞溪，神父在對你的心靈成長負責(zé)

you were just to follow all these people and do whatsoever they say

你只要跟隨這幫人孵滞，并照他們說的做（就ok了）

when you are grown up and you are no more a child，a great fear arises because you have to take responsibility and you have not been trained to take responsibility for yourself

當(dāng)你長大鸯匹，不再是個孩子坊饶，巨大的恐懼升起，因為你得負責(zé)忽你，而你還不曾被訓(xùn)練如何對自己負責(zé)幼东；

you start going to confess your sin to the priest

你開始向神父懺悔……

what kind of stupidity you are doing

（看）你在干什么蠢事！

First, to think that you have committed the sin,

2nd, feeling guilty that you come to ditch

3rd now you have to go to the priests to confessage

so that he can pray to god to forgive you

首先，你認為自己已經(jīng)犯了罪根蟹；其次脓杉，感到愧疚為自己所做的；第三简逮，現(xiàn)在你要向神父懺悔為了讓他能向上帝禱告原諒你

a simple thing has become so complex球散，so long and circuitus，unnecessarily

一件簡單的事情變得如此復(fù)雜散庶，厄長又糾結(jié)蕉堰！

沒必要！

whatever you have done you wanted to do it that's why you have done it

and who is there to decide what is sin

and what is not sin

無論你做了什么悲龟，你想做——這就是你這樣做的原因屋讶！

誰能決定什么是罪，什么不是罪须教？

there is no criterion anywhere無處可尋衡量標(biāo)準(zhǔn)

no weighing a scale that you can go and weigh

how much sin you have come to do

one kilo two kilo three kilo

你能找到個秤去稱你的罪幾公斤重嗎皿渗？一公斤，二公斤轻腺，三公斤乐疆？

how long a sin you have come to

one yard two yard three yard

你能找到一把尺來量你的罪有多長嗎？

一英尺贬养，兩英尺挤土，三英尺？

and what was the sin

and who is this priest you are going to confess

and it is his strategy

什么是罪误算？你要去懺悔的神父是誰仰美？這是神父的伎倆

because if you go on confessing to the priest

you are certainly afraid of the priest

because he knows all the ins and outs of you

因為如果你繼續(xù)向神父懺悔，你肯定會怕他

因為他知道你所有的來龍去脈

the priest knows every gossip going on in the town

he knows how many husbands are flirting with other people's wifes

he knows who is doing what： they themselves go on confessing it

神父知道城里所有發(fā)生著的八卦

知道多少丈夫在與別人老婆偷情

知道誰在做尉桩，而他們自己就會來懺悔

this is the priest’s strategy to keep control of its congregation

這就是神父控制信眾的伎倆

you cannot leave the congregation because the priest can expose you

and also you are afraid if you leave the congregation the priest may not ask god for you to be forgiven

and you have committed so many sins

now it is too late

you have to remain in the same herd,

in the same crowd for your whole life

你不能脫離信眾因為神父會揭發(fā)你

你也害怕如果你脫離信眾筒占，神父可能不再為你請求上帝的寬恕贪庙，

你已經(jīng)犯下如此多的罪過蜘犁，

現(xiàn)在為時已晚，

所以你只能留在這群人中止邮，終其一生这橙。

I teach you not to be responsible to anybody the father the mother

the country，the religion导披，the party line

don't be responsible to anybody.

you are not

just be responsible to yourself

我教你：無需對任何人負責(zé)屈扎，包括你的父母，國家撩匕，宗教鹰晨，黨派

無需對任何人負責(zé)！你不用（對其他任何人負責(zé)）！

只對你自己負責(zé)模蜡！

do whatsoever you feel like doing it

if it is wrong漠趁，you will have following your act immediately the punishment

if it is right，you will have immediately instantly following it the reverse

做任何你喜歡做的事忍疾，

如果這事兒做錯了闯传，你會立即地受到隨著你的行動而來的懲罰

如果這事兒做對了，你也會即刻地收到隨之而來的回報

and there is no other way to start finding what is wrong what is right on your own

you will grow a new sensitivity

只有這樣你才能開始發(fā)現(xiàn)對于你而言什么是對的卤妒，什么是錯的

你將成長出新的覺知甥绿。

Indians called it the third eyes

you will start seeing with a new vision a new eyes

instantly you will know what is wrong because in the past so many times you have done it and always suffered in consequence

you will know what is right because whenever you did it

there was a great blessing showered on by existence

Cause and effects are together

they are not separated by years and lives

印度人稱它為第三眼

你將開始用全新的視角，新的眼睛看

立刻地你會知道什么是錯则披，因為過去你已經(jīng)干過很多次了共缕，且總是隨之受苦

你也馬上知道什么是對，因為無論何時你做了士复，就會感受到沐浴在存在那豐盛的祝福里

因果總是相連骄呼，經(jīng)年累世從未分開過。