當(dāng)我真正開始愛自己

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As I Began to Love Myself

當(dāng)我真正開始愛自己

As I began to love myself I found that anguish and emotional suffering are only warning signs that I was living against my own truth. Today, I know, this is AUTHENTICITY.

當(dāng)我真正開始愛自己遗契,我才意識到歌豺,所有的痛苦和情感的折磨铺董,僅僅是在提醒,我的生活背離了真實的自己。今日柳弄,我明白疯潭,這叫做「真實」。

As I began to love myself I understood how much it can offend somebody as I try to force my desires on this person, even though I knew the time was not right and the person was not ready for it, and even though this person was me. Today I call it RESPECT.

當(dāng)我真正開始愛自己祝旷,我才懂得履澳,當(dāng)我將自己的意愿強加于人時,是多么的冒犯無禮怀跛,即使那時我知曉時機(jī)尚未成熟距贷,那個人也并未做好準(zhǔn)備,即便那個人就是我自己吻谋。今日我明白這叫做「尊重」忠蝗。

As I began to love myself I stopped craving for a different life, and I could see that everything that surrounded me was inviting me to grow. Today I call it MATURITY.

當(dāng)我開始真正愛自己,我不再苛求不一樣的人生漓拾,我明白任何發(fā)生在我身邊的事阁最,都是對我成長的邀約。而今晦攒,我稱之為「成熟」闽撤。

As I began to love myself I understood that at any circumstance, I am in the right place at the right time, and everything happens at the exactly right moment, so I could be calm. Today I call it SELF-CONFIDENCE.

當(dāng)我開始真正愛自己,我才明白在任何情況下脯颜,我其實一直處于恰好的時機(jī)哟旗、恰好的地方,而每件事的發(fā)生也都恰如其分栋操。由此闸餐,我得以平靜。今日矾芙,我稱其為「自信」舍沙。

As I began to love myself I quit stealing my own time, and I stopped designing huge projects for the future. Today, I only do what brings me joy and happiness, things I love to do and that make my heart cheer, and I do them in my own way and in my own rhythm. Today I call it SIMPLICITY.

當(dāng)我開始真正愛自己,我不再揮霍自己生命和時間剔宪,不再去擘畫波瀾壯闊的未來拂铡。今天的我,只做能為我?guī)硐矏偤托腋5氖麓腥蓿瞿切┪宜鶡釔鄹兴В夷芄奈栉倚牡氖虑椋梦姨赜械姆绞降氐恚凑瘴易约旱墓?jié)奏失球。今日我知曉這叫做「簡單」。

As I began to love myself I freed myself of anything that is no good for my health – food, people, things, situations, and everything that drew me down and away from myself. At first I called this attitude a healthy egoism. Today I know it is LOVE OF ONESELF.

當(dāng)我開始真正愛自己帮毁,我開始遠(yuǎn)離所有不健康的東西实苞,不論是飲食豺撑、人物、事情亦或環(huán)境黔牵,遠(yuǎn)離拖累我聪轿、讓我背離了真實自我的一切。從前的我稱呼這為“有益健康的利己主義”荧止。今天我知道屹电,這其實是「自愛」。

As I began to love myself I quit trying to always be right, and ever since I was wrong less of the time. Today I discovered that is MODESTY.

當(dāng)我開始真正愛自己跃巡,我不再總想做到永遠(yuǎn)正確危号,從那時起,我犯錯的時候反而更少了∷匦埃現(xiàn)在我發(fā)現(xiàn)那就是「謙遜」外莲。

As I began to love myself I refused to go on living in the past and worry about the future. Now, I only live for the moment, where EVERYTHING is happening. Today I live each day, day by day, and I call it FULFILLMENT.

當(dāng)我開始真正愛自己,我不再繼續(xù)沉溺于過去兔朦,也不再為明天而憂慮偷线。如今,我只活在這一切正在發(fā)生的當(dāng)下沽甥。今天声邦,我活在此時此地,如此日復(fù)一日摆舟,而我稱這為「圓滿」亥曹。

As I began to love myself I recognized that my mind can disturb me and it can make me sick. But As I connected it to my heart, my mind became a valuable ally. Today I call this connection WISDOM OF THE HEART.

當(dāng)我真正開始愛自己,我明白恨诱,我的思慮擾亂了自我媳瞪,使我變得了無生趣。但當(dāng)我與本心相連照宝,心靈的力量就成為了我堅實的后盾蛇受。今日我稱這種連結(jié)為「心靈的智慧」。

We no longer need to fear arguments, confrontations or any kind of problems with ourselves or others. Even stars collide, and outof their crashing new worlds are born. Today I know THAT IS LIFE!

我們無需再害怕生命中的爭論厕鹃、沖突兢仰,或是任何出現(xiàn)在與我們自己或與其他人之間的問題。因為即使是星星也會有碰撞在一起的時候剂碴,而從它們的撞擊中旨别,新的世界將會誕生。今天我知道汗茄,這,就是「生命」铭若!

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