Problem-Solving needs time.
生活中等缀，我們一遇到問(wèn)題挣轨，就想立馬找到解決辦法能曾，當(dāng)問(wèn)題遲遲得不到解決時(shí)宵溅，我們不想再忍受解決問(wèn)題時(shí)的痛苦和不適時(shí)凌简，我們就會(huì)兩手一攤上炎，“我也無(wú)能為力了”恃逻。其實(shí)這也是一種延遲滿(mǎn)足的行為。解決辦法就好比一種滿(mǎn)足藕施，人們不能夠一直探索找到問(wèn)題的解決辦法就用“我也無(wú)能為力了”來(lái)實(shí)現(xiàn)這種滿(mǎn)足寇损。
還有一種心理就是想當(dāng)然的以為問(wèn)題自己會(huì)走開(kāi)，這類(lèi)人趨向于忽略問(wèn)題裳食，認(rèn)為問(wèn)題不存在矛市，以為問(wèn)題真的就不存在了，其實(shí)這樣只會(huì)讓問(wèn)題越來(lái)越嚴(yán)重诲祸。這也是延遲滿(mǎn)足的一種現(xiàn)象浊吏。“Confronting problems is painful. To willingly confront a priblem early, before we are forced to confront it by circumstance, means to put aside something pleasant or less painful for smething more painful.”
have the the foggiest idea of :完全不知道
defect:缺點(diǎn)，不足
unfailing:始終如一的救氯，不倦的
resignedly:聽(tīng)天由命的
hassel困難找田，麻煩
dead broke:身無(wú)分文的
