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1. If you are single, do you have mandatory criteria for your Mr/Mrs. Right? why? 楊絳說：結(jié)婚之前要睜大眼，結(jié)婚后要閉一只眼灯萍。結(jié)婚前要睜大眼睛挑選適合自己的人歹啼，和自己興趣相投濒析，三觀一致的人。結(jié)婚后反而要該演的戲要演，該裝的糊涂得裝，該和解的和解『甓啵婚姻本是一場合作，誰先睜眼澡罚，誰就輸了伸但。兩個(gè)人的個(gè)性和背景差異，以及生活中的摩擦點(diǎn)都可能引發(fā)矛盾留搔。這時(shí)候更胖，睜大眼睛去追求完美并不現(xiàn)實(shí)，反而會(huì)讓關(guān)系更加緊張催式。相反函喉，適當(dāng)?shù)亻]一只眼，選擇寬容和理解荣月，能夠幫助雙方更好地解決問題管呵。
2. What is your expected relationship
3. How do you think about“門當(dāng)戶對”？what's the well-matched marriage? You are equal in position and material wealth, economic background. 門當(dāng)戶對的真正含義并不僅僅局限于財(cái)富哺窄、地位捐下、家教、教養(yǎng)等外在條件的一致萌业，更重要的是指兩個(gè)人在三觀坷襟、教育背景、人生經(jīng)歷生年、消費(fèi)觀念婴程、生活環(huán)境等方面的相匹配。這種相匹配不僅有助于兩個(gè)人在思想抱婉、三觀档叔、層次上保持一致性，相輔相成蒸绩，從而讓婚姻經(jīng)營得更好衙四，走得更遠(yuǎn)。In my opinion, I believe that "門當(dāng)戶對" is still relevant in modern society. While some may argue that love is the most important factor in a marriage, it cannot be denied that social and economic factors also play a significant role in a successful marriage. For example, if one partner comes from a wealthy family and the other from a lower-income family, there may be a power imbalance that can create tension and stress in the relationship. However, I also believe that "門當(dāng)戶對" should not be the only factor considered when choosing a partner. It is important to also prioritize love, compatibility, education background, culture, and shared values. A couple may come from different social and economic backgrounds but still have a strong and healthy relationship if they have a deep understanding and respect for each other.
4. Who would you like to choose? The one you love or the one who love you患亿？choosing the one you love is like choosing a job/things you like to do, it makes you feel alive, passionate and energetic…be careful the one you love may not love you, you will feel depressed, and painful. Loving and matching each other is most lucky and wonderful thing. 人生所有的選擇里传蹈，我們其實(shí)都只要選一個(gè)，就是選自己。真正愛你的人惦界，他會(huì)懂你的底色挑格，尊重你的堅(jiān)持，除非你自己先放棄沾歪。知道你只是看中他條件的人恕齐，遲早會(huì)用條件拿捏你。而人和不喜歡的人在一起瞬逊，即使大富大貴，也是度日如年仪或。我很慶幸沒有選條件最好的确镊，也沒有選討好我的，我只是選了一個(gè)讓我可以做自己的人范删。然后蕾域，我就發(fā)現(xiàn)，只要順序?qū)α说降悴粫?huì)錯(cuò)到哪里去旨巷。
5. Share your love story, experience of love and marriage? 喜歡未必合適，合適未必喜歡添忘，感情從來沒有合不合適采呐。喜歡是一種感覺，適合是一種條件搁骑。
6. How to maintain a good relationship/marriage? 戀愛談的是浪漫斧吐，看見的都是美好，婚姻是生活瑣事仲器，看見的都是人情冷暖煤率，世態(tài)炎涼”。Chores and errands may kill off the romantic love.
7. 怎么看待不婚主義乏冀？do you think marriage is a must? 不婚主義者不是不想結(jié)婚蝶糯，而是對婚姻更在乎和謹(jǐn)慎，他們不想將就辆沦，不想辜負(fù)愛情昼捍，不想埋葬婚姻。
